Advise for a person who needs best friend help!!!?

Question

Well, me and best friend are fighting because I am going out with a guy that she liked. She wasn't upset that I said yes, she was upset because I never told her I liked him. I tried to fix the issue, I tried talking to her, and she never wanted to talk to me. So, I eventually gave up on trying. Now we are trying to work it out, but it isn't working. I'm not sure how to go about trying to get my best friend back. Any advice????

Answer 1

I know what your going through I had this problem plenty of times as I was growing up. I say the only thing you can do is try to work it out and ask her what she would like you to do. Tell her you are sorry for hurting her and that no male could ever come in between your friendship. You both have to realize men can come and go and good friends are hard to find. If she is a true friend she will understand and you all will find a way sometimes things in life take time. If you knew she liked him though you should have asked her before you even said yes and told her you liked him. But grow and learn. You cant take boyfriends in from your friends if they like them always will cause an argument. You have to have an open friendship and ask before hand. Honesty is the Key to any relationship even friendships.

Answer 2

don't see the guy again.

Answer 3

sit wit ur friend and talk about it, if u cant talk, email her/ snd a txt, etc and let her knw hw u feel, mayb she cnt forgiv u coz she still likes the guy and doesnt lyk the fact your with him? would u giv the guy up 4 her? just speak to her and let her know how u feel and ask her how and why she feels what she feel about the situation

Answer 4

You say "we" are trying to work it out.

So, do not give up. It may be the guy, who decides. <}:-})

Answer 5

Your friend needs to calm down. I know what it feels like to be your best friend (it happened yesterday, actually) and I would say that she just needs time to cool down. Keep trying to talk to her, and don't act like your boyfriend is your life, or you'll never have any hope of getting back with your best friend. If you don't mind her hanging out with you and your boyfriend, then invite her to. But aviod fighting. If she brings up the subject of the boy, change the subject without being rude. Hope I helped, just give her time.