Advise on how 2 get rid of my MOTHER plz!!!?

Question

I'm 16 years old and ive been with my bf for 1 year and a half...but my mom still doesn't give us our privacy!!! =( I'm not asking 2 go somewhere completely lonely like his house or something...I'm asking 2 go 2 a restaurant because he invited me 2 go eat. And well he doesn't have a job but he took the time to save up enough money to take the 2 of us 2 eat. And well this is going 2 be the 1st time that we go 2 some sort of formal-ish restaurant together and i want it 2 be special...but my mom wants 2 go along with.

And its really irritating because we have to take her EVERYWHERE with us...to the movies, to the park, to eat, etc.

We don't plan on doing anything bad...besides what harm can we do in a restaurant??? Have s*x on the table or something?

She says that she just doesn't wanna leave me alone with him but we are not going 2 be alone...we are going 2 be in a public restaurant.

What can i do 2 get rid of her???

Answer 1

tell her your not going to do anything she's imagining. Unless you've done something bad before, tell her that she should trust you. Its pretty bad that she wants to come with you on a date.  Plus, your going somewhere public, if she really needs it tell her you'll call and confirm where you are or something once you reach the place.

Answer 2

Sara i have a 16 year old and its not easy to let your kids grow up  its not that she does not trust you its that she cant let go of you , because she does not want to see you get hurt, and if she is there then no one can hurt you, why dont you sit down with your mom and tell her how you feel and maybe you guys can work something out,

let she can drop you guys off and then when your down, pick you back up or wait outside or take a girlfriend and sit and enought table, stuff like the to help you out,  and meet you half way.

but dont be ugly to your mom ok, when you have kids you will see that its not easy to let go. and if you talk to her, and get the communications open she will trust you more and let you do more. good luck and talk to you mom, ok,

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Answer 3

um killl her?? jk lol thts so funny tho