Ohkay, so my dad and step mom have been married for a little over three years now, and they've been dating for like 9 years. Me and my sister have always had problems with our step mom, we don't get a long very well. See, my step mom was raised to always clean up after herself, and to do chores without being asked too. (which isn't neccessarily a bad thing). But i wasn't raised like that, nor was my sister. So we have tried pleanty of times to please her, and to do what she asks, but every week, she finds something wrong with me. Her and my dad give us lectures very often on everything we do wrong, and what we should change. At the last lecture, she told me that i took the lazy end of everything, and that she wishes she was my mom, so she could slap me, cause apparently i desperately need it. Lately, things looked like they were starting to get better, until' this little lecture, where she told me that i blamed something on my pop-pop, and so after she said everything, when i went to walk away, i stopped and stood up for myself. I was like "just for the record, i never blamed it on my pop-pop". she COMPLETELY went off on me.
Now that was on the fourth of july, two weeks ago when i was up there, we had another lecture (as usual), and luckily i live with my mom, but what pisses me and my sister off more than anything, is how they assume they know what goes on @ my dads house, and they tell ME what I think, and they tell me what I SHOULD think, which really pisses me off.
So stuff like this has been going on for awhile now, but this past week, i've noticed that my dads changed. He's not acting the same, he's meaner, and I really don't like it. He's acting more like my step mom, and it's really start to upset me to the point that i don't know if it's worth going up there anymore. I do admite, i can be rude, and that i shouldn't talk back to my parents no matter that their saying, but it's just so frustrating listening to all the **** they say. And if i want to have a conversation with my dad on the phone, cause i call him a lot, every single word gets back to my step mom, because she HAS to know.
Could someone just please tell me what i could do about this situation? Sorry the detail is so long, i just wanted to give you a feel for what i deal with.
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