Affair with married colleague...?

Question

Me and she both married, she with kids. She was suppressing her feeling for me. Recently, with an overseas opportunity, we end into an affair (emtionally & physically). We feel good more than guilt. Does anyone have similar experience?

Answer 1

Negative response aside:

What are your plans with this woman in the long run? Are you going to leave your wife for her? Will she leave her husband and set up home with you and her kids? Do you love your wife? but most importantly Why did you both started this affair. You both feel good because it's a new relationship but Will you feel good if or when you get caught?

You need to think about the people involved and sit down with this woman and decide what to do. You can't have both women!

Answer 2

It might feel good short term, but it's going to hurt, long term. Affairs NEVER end up well. Somebody always gets hurt!

Answer 3

You two should be ashamed of yourselves.  Their is no room in a marriage for an affair.  You should have divorced your wife if you wanted to have s*x with another women.  I feel for your wife!!!

Answer 4

Married people should not have affairs and then you would have no guilt

Answer 5

I do sumwhat both you have to stop the affair its a sin u guys both are married its not looking good sum 1 can get hurt what you do in the dark will come out in the light

Answer 6

It won't last - your guilt will turn to remorse - just so you know :)  

Answer 7

It is called lust, and you both will end up paying for it in the end.  Both of you are selfish people with no respect for the sanctity of marriage, or for your family.  You deserve each other, but the respective spouses and children do not deserve the pain that they will have to endure once you are caught--and you will eventually get caught!!!

Answer 8

No matter what happens... I can guarantee two things...

1. You will have the most incredible s*x of your life

2. And it will never last...

Answer 9

Yeah, happened to me as well. We are adults and can control our emotions and still love our spouses. It is just extra curricular activities for us.

Answer 10

There is no way you can forget what you and she done but the both of you need to end it ...and end it now! If you continue, there are going to be others getting hurt..do you want that to happen.?