Afraid to go past making out?

Question

It always makes me nervous when I think about going past making out with my boyfriend Is it possible to have a relationship without the pressure of doing other stuff? I know I would feel dirty if I did anything more.

Answer 1

your just not ready yet. when your ready you will know...dont fall under pressure though you will regret it.

Answer 2

It is very possible to have a relationship without going past the making out. If you are not ready, don't do it. Don't listen to any guy when they say "If you love me, you will", You can say, "If you love me, you will wait". If he leaves you...oh well, it would have happened sooner or later, because if he really loves you, he would respect you in your decisions. So don't jump into bed with any guy that is pressuring you. If that's the one thing on his mind and its so important to him...say good bye.

Answer 3

of course its about finding someone who respects you, and one day when you are BOTH ready you will move further

Answer 4

do what you feel is right.

Answer 5

STAY where you are.

So many people I know have STD's it's not even funny.

Of course it's possible to have a relationship without going past making out. If he keeps pressuring you then he doesn't respect you or really love you.

Answer 6

You should never feel pressured to do anything that is that serious as that If you feel like it is wrong then don't do it, also if you do this it could potentially ruin your life.

Answer 7

u feel like this cuz u havent found the one ur true love so do it only when u r 100 % with the person who will love you and respect you for who you are dont let others take advantage of u

Answer 8

Do whatever makes you feel most comfortable.

One day, you might not feel this way about going past making out anymore, and then it's perfectly fine to do more.

Until then, just wait it out and don't let anyone pressure you into doing things you aren't ready for yet.

Good luck.

Answer 9

is perfectly normal to have a relationship like that, now on the reality is it possible to have a relationship with the guy ur with, if u feel like his pressuring u then u have ur answer its no...Talk to him and let him know how u feel, and if he respects u, then ur worth waiting for, if not, then u will find someone suitable who does show u respect n not rushing u into ur ready

Answer 10

"What's right isn't always popular, and what's popular isn't always right."

It is perfectly fine to st boundaries about what you will and will not do. Not only that, it is smart and healthy to wait to do more. Trust yourself and don't do what you are not comfortable doing. There is a reason you feel uncomfortable and it is very wise to trust yourself here.

The part that is tricky here is that when you're making out, things can get pretty steamy. It might be a good idea to talk with your boyfriend and make sure he understands how important this is to you, but talk when things aren't steamy and your minds are clear. Intimacy is a wonderful thing, **at the right time, with the right person**!! It is worth waiting, without a doubt.

Stay strong to your convictions and you will be glad you did.

Answer 11

just tell him that, if he pressures you after that then he doesn't love you enough to respect you.

Answer 12

THEN DON'T DO IT!!!

Answer 13

yes its possible to be on a realtionship w/o s*x..........

do what u feel is right. just because all the other people are having s*x doesnt mean u have to also......and if your boyfriend respects you then he will wait also!!!!

♥ hope i helped you out a little bit!! good luck with everything!!

ttyl ♥

Answer 14

Well I'm relieved to hear that not ALL young people are doing it! Stick to your guns and only go as far as YOU are comfortable going. Do not let him pressure you. I know it sounds hoaky, but "true love really does wait."  Because if he thinks you're worth keeping, you're worth waiting as long as it takes.

So stay strong!

Answer 15

Well done to you!!!!!

It's nice to see there are still nice,good people with morals still out there. Don't get caught in the trap of my friends are doing it so I must to. when your time comes you'll know so don't be in a hurry.

Answer 16

Do only what is comfortable for you. If your bf pressures you for more and doesn't understand then maybe it is time for someone new.

Answer 17

Do what is comfortable for you.  Do not let anyone else pressure you into doing anyhting that makes you uncomfortable.