After I have lost my virginity, I feel like I had a slight personality change?

Question

I am discovering that I've become more.. clean you can say. Not that I was filthy before, but I now have the need to take three showers a day and I sweep my bedroom at least once a day and mop it with the swiffer once every two or three days; lol. It's like I've become OCD or something. I have never been like this. I just have the sudden urge to clean everything... including myself!

Answer 1

Did you loose your virginity because you wanted to or because someone raped you? If you lost voluntary I suspect you might feel a little guilty especially if you are young. If you were raped then you you probably feel dirty and you need to tell someone so you can report the person. And get some counseling. This just my opinion.

Answer 2

lol kinda weird..but not really a bad thing...unless it becomes really really obsessive...you should be okay. maybe just going through a phase.

Answer 3

Perhaps you're just trying to kepp your slef busy so you dont have to think about other things...like how guilty you feel.

I felt guilty after my first time and to this day I still (a little bit) regret my first....

You cant let it dictate your life though...as time passes, you learn to forget about it...

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with you. It could be a deeper mental issue that you need to deal with such as guilt but otherwise I don't see a problem with it unless it is getting in the way of say homework. Then it is an issue. Otherwise, being clean is good! You just need to slow down and think about the situation and understand your mind and body as one. You need to first figure out how you feel, what you want, and what you want to accomplish. Then I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about it and future "it"'s so that you have an understanding for the future.