After an 11 year relationship with a sociopath.I'm glad it's over but finding it hard to let go of obsessive ?

Question

thoughts and thinking about his new victim. I'm finding it hard to begin my new life there is so much devastation, my friends have left, it has been a very difficult 6 months, It's finally over (he left me for someone else,but would NEVER leave when I tried to end it), but I'm angry,feel abandoned, etc Any ideas?

Answer 1

no matter how bad the marriage was u will still miss him,and its hurt your ego if he dumped u. join a self help divorce recovery group,where u can talk about it to others who will understand. just be glad she has the problems now, and not u, u are the lucky one here only u can't see it yet.things happen for a reason,we don't always understand why things happen, but a new life is right around the corner once u let go of the old life and hurts.it was meant to be this way.

Answer 2

Narcissists do not feel empathy for other people, only for what they can get for themselves.

The best way to get even, is be happy and successful.

Answer 3

ya be happy its done. I have a ex friend that was a sociopath! She lies, steals, manipulates, does drugs i could go on for hours. They are very annoying and if they dont get there way they get pissed and start crying so u will feel sympathetic for them! So ya be happy u got rid of him!