After break-up, when will it end?

Question

we dated for 2 years and we broke up 4 months ago and i am still in immense pain even tho i cut off all contact with her. it's been a while and i just wanna know when does it ever stop hurting?

Answer 1

Me and my ex broke up a year ago, and if i still come across a picture of him i'll cry m y eyes out. It's just the way it is unfortunately. It does end up hurting less... Life goes on, and unfortunately you gotta wait it out till you yourself are ready to move on. And when that time comes you will do it and in your own way. No one can tell you how or when to stop hurting over someone you love. But don't push other girls away, even when you feel like it. Meeting someone else, even if it's a girl friend, that will most definitely help you.

Good luck x

Answer 2

man, me and you are in the same boat.  me and my girl were together for 6 yrs and we broke up about two or three months ago as well.  These past two weeks have been the hardest though... She and the guy she cheated on me with have made there relationship official, and she's prego....AHHHHH!!! Now that I got that out, let me tell, I recently discovered this site and it sure has helped. When ever I am feeling confused about things, I just type the question in here.  It might not get a professional answer but hearing things from different perspectives help alot.  

I just recently posted a question like yours and the best answer I got for this was....Time doesnt heal, only what you do with that time.  Keep your mind busy man. And hang in there

Answer 3

your heart broken...all it takes is time..

Answer 4

When you are tired of letting it consume your life you will let it end and you will move on with your life. Not to sound mean or like a smart a**, but it is really as simple as that.

You will always have the memories of it but the hurt from it needs to not live within you and make you stand still in your life. It is much too short for that and there are too many people out there to get to know to stunt your growth.

I have been happily married now for eighteen years. I still to this day think about past relationships, not that I miss them but what I learned from them.

Everything you go through bad in your life is a challenge and challenges are meant to help you learn and grow as a person.

Answer 5

I was with my ex for 7 years we've been broke up for 1 year and 3 months and i still get sad about it and think about him almost everyday..I think its gonna take a long time to get over someone u truly loved

Answer 6

As the old saying goes...time heals all wounds.   I don't know if you will ever truly get over it but the pain will ease.  I was an emotional wreck a year ago when my ex and I broke up.  We were together for a year and have been broke up for a year but I know that he was the love of my life.   He was the one that my heart longed to be with and I still cry about it from time to time especially when I found out he married two weeks ago.   It tore my heart out.   It does get easier with time but I know that I will never forget him.

Answer 7

it doesn't really ever stop hurting, it will dull to a throb.  and it only goes to show how much you are able to love.  the memory is what counts. and love will spring anew again in time -- believe it!