I'm getting married in 2 months. We have been together for almost 5 years. 4 years ago his best friend got married and he was the best man. I understand that as a best man you have to do whatever the groom wants. It's his bag day. I wasn't happy with the strip club scene knowing my fiance had a history with them, but my finace was nice enough to talk to me through things and PROMISED that if it bothered me that much than he would be respectful enough to not get a lap dance. I was impressed! The party came and he did not keep his promise. I was upset, but we worked through it. A couple months ago he revealed to me that quite a bit more happened that night that he never told me about. The other guys there.. who want to take him to Canada for a weekend of fun for his bachelor party... had naked women waiting for them back at the house after his best friends bachelor party. He says nothing happened but he drank so much that night he doesn't remember. It took him 4 years to tell me the truth and now I am terrified he will be going to another country with the same guys and lie to me again. He has never given me a reason not to trust him... except for this... He tells me that he will tell everyone he can't go because I won't "let" him have a bachelor party.. which is just silly... he can have one.. I just don't trust him around strippers and his friends who bring them home. First time shame on him, second time shame on me right? This is like giant red flag before I get married and I don't know what to do!
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