After s*x I get really emotional?

Question

Heya - I've been having s*x for a few months now, but I've noticed that sometimes afterwards I get really upset for no apparant reason. I'm happy with my partner and he makes sure I'm happy, but why do I get so upset at something that's so enjoyable? Please help.

Answer 1

I think you still nuture some feeling of guilt.

Answer 2

Well if nothing else, it proves you are a female. s*x is simpler for men, but women have a lot more to contend with, not the least the thought of becoming pregnant.

Why do women cry at movies, and cry at times, when they are happy.

That's hard wired into women, it's who they are. Maybe some women can explain it better.

Maybe you are just wishing, it was leading to something more permanent in your relationship. Or you have feelings that you are doing something wrong.  

Answer 3

Have you never heard the same -

'Have you ever loved someone so much it hurt'

This is true. I have no idea why or how but it does.

and it hurts alot.

Answer 4

is he just **** at it?

i'd cry too.

Answer 5

can we have s*x then maybe I can answer

Answer 6

ur not the first woman to experience this!!

its just hormones and emotions all running wild at tht time, its perfectly natural..some women cry their eyes out! for some women its their own form of release.

it doesnt mean to say ur unhappy, just that we have complex bodies with stupid hormones!

im sure ur partner will understand if you explain it to him!

its a good thing! :)

x

Answer 7

It's hormones released after s*x. They make you emotional.

Answer 8

Sounds like you are the sort of person who needs to be cuddled after s*x, which is quite common and nothing to worry about.

You both sound well matched, so try cuddling and see if it works.

Answer 9

obviously physically its going to be enjoyable but you may not be comfortable doing it. not to sound corny or anything but many people thing s*x is something special. maybe you are happy with your partner but do u love him? like truly love him? because that could be the thing that your happy but dont feel comfortable doing it.