After you have been dating someone for 6 months is this normal?

Question

I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. I asked him about how he feels about me and he said I was good looking. I asked him about his feelings and he said that his feelings are his own business. I asked him if he plans on having a long term relationship with me and he said yes. Do I continue with this guy or do you think he will always be guarded and I am never going to find out his true feelings about me?

Answer 1

Im Sorry I Dont Know

Good Luckk x*x

Answer 2

If a person does not wish to be emotionally intimate with their significant other, they're looking for s*x, not a loving or lasting relationship. Move on.

Answer 3

well, guys instinctively try not to show or feel feelings at all, most of them

Answer 4

well that is not enough for me no. I would not date him another day. that kind of guy would only frustrate me and hurt me. If I am loved, I need to hear it and feel it. That is not to much to ask, that is a basic human need. I dont' think that is normal at all. I am surprised it took you 6 months to ask. Usually guys express themselves within the first few dates and expresss their feelings for you and where they want the relationship to go.

Answer 5

if hes with you and said yes to your longterm question. he seems quite commited, i think you should do things where he can open up with his feelings,,like i dunno for example,,write him a love letter,,

Answer 6

love takes time. and 6 months is still little. maybe he was out from a really messed up relationship so it takes time for him to be open up

Answer 7

he seems guarded, but this all depends on how old you are. If you are above the age of 18 then i would leave and not stick with it.

But if you are younger than that, you want to be able to date more than one person in a lifetime, while your young, and if this is how he acts now don't ever expect him to change.

Answer 8

well if you really like him I dont think that that is grounds to break up with him.. I think you should bring it up with him and ask him why he is so guarded and just let him know that he can trust you with his feelings. Good Luck!