Again, thank you to those who gave me positive answers and support. But for those who spoke about adoption....

Question

WHAT are you talking about??? I NEVER said I wanted to do that. And I think some of the things you said were hurtful and mean! I'm not a selfish person. I AM thinking of my baby and he is all the family I have. And yes, I know it's a boy and I already chose his name. I was just curious about foster care for babies because I didn't know how that worked. I was put into foster care because I was taken not given. But now I know that's not a good idea. I wrote to get positive advice not critized. You should pay attention to what people are asking before answering. It really hurt my feelings that some of you don't think I'm good enough to be a mother to my child. You can wind up really hurting someone else with that kind of advise if that's not what they really want to do.

Answer 1

exactly sunny!! couldn't have said it better myself!! contact me girl, i'll get ya some help!!

the best parents are those who ask questions, seek help and aren't afraid to learn. good job!! I can tell you're really strong! you are a GREAT mother!

Answer 2

Oh sweetee!  Just blow them off.  They are puke-green with envy because you can get pregnant and they can't.  They are so hungry to steal your child, they can't even read and understand what is being said.

Your son is ssooooo lucky to have you for his mom.  You are a fighter!  I like that.  You have the making to be an awesome MOM!

Answer 3

Kudos to you for being so strong and not listening to the nay sayers.  You are not only strong but intelligent for seeing through their diatribe.

With your strength and intelligence you are going to be a great mother.  Remember that children don't need the best of everything to grow into confident healthy adults.  I know MANY people who started as single mothers with no more resources than you have at this time.  They went on to be successful women with loving healthy children.

I remember your other post.  You were treated poorly by some and I'm sorry that it hurt you.  All my best to you and your little one.

Answer 4

I'm not sure what question was involved, but it sounds like a very sensitive one. I'm sorry you were hurt so badly by some answers. Some people may not have understood you, and some might have been kids that answered and were just plain butts.

Just remember that when you ask a question on here, you may, and or may not get the answers you were looking for. But always remember to be true to yourself because only you know what's best for your life, and current situation. People on here are complete strangers that have no clue to the kind of person you are, other than what they read. And we all know that sometimes what we read is misinterpreted often and taken the wrong way.

Stay strong for you and for your baby. You'll be just fine. Take it day by day. Please don't hesitate to ask any other questions on here, but just remember that only you can really decide what is best for you and for your family.  :-) Best wishes to you girl.  Take care.

Answer 5

Good for you for fending off the predatory vultures who would like nothing more than to take your baby from you

I am so glad you are strong and can stand up to those people who feel entitled to someone elses baby, even when you never even mentioned relinquishing baby!!  yee gods, what is the world coming to

Never let anyone persuade you that they would be better for baby than you - you are the only mother your child has and nobody can replace you

I am sure you will be a wonderful mother to your child

Big hugs to you and babe

Answer 6

Good for you.

That's all I can say.... with a huge smile... GOOD FOR YOU.

You'll be a great mom.

((Hugs))

Answer 7

The meanies are just angry that you're going against the grain, and keeping your baby,

They wanted you to give him away.  To them.

You go, girl!

Answer 8

I am so sorry this happened to you and that you were made to feel this way.  That is terrible!

I am glad that you have found a positive solution and I hope the best for you and your baby.

Answer 9

I didn't see your other question, but as an adoptee, it makes me VERY HAPPY to hear you'll be keeping your baby. Now that I'm a mom I know about baby being the only family I have.

You are obviously resourceful, I've learned that babies aren't expensive. Just learn how to breastfeed, it is difficult at first, but after a little while it becomes soooooo easy. You can learn about how to co-sleep safely, and cloth diaper....baby years can really be pretty inexpensive. If you can spend a little computer time checking out these subjects, motherhood is really amazing.



Congratulations!