Again im 16 and thinking about losing my virginity...?

Question

I asked a question like this earlier but i want to clarify some things and also get other opinions...ive known this guy for a long time...he isn't a virgin and has slept with 3 other girls...my friends say i will regret it and to wait but i really disagree...the reason I'm asking on here is i need some opinions from people that have had the experience because i have no one else to talk to...i just want any information i can get as far as advice and what to expect...i know for the most part i just need some other opinions and experiences...thanks.

Answer 1

i lost my virginity at 17 we used protection and at that time i loved him very much i had no regrets and i also didn't ask my friends opinions i went with what i felt was right

Answer 2

Honestly, I would have to say stay a virgin!! I am 17 years old and constantly worrying about getting pregnant. One night of fun isn't worth stressing yourself out.If you want to have s*x you have to be prepared for anything and everything. Most of the time i regret having s*x with my bf, i love him but not enough to s***w up my life and get pregnant. My parents expect so much from me in life and have no idea their only and oldest daughter, is having s*x. If they ever found out I was sexually active, or worse....pregnant(i hope to God i am not), my parents would kill me, or kick me out. So please, your virginity is PRECIOUS and not worth losing it to someone who has already had s*x with 3 other girls. Not to be a *****, but to him you'll just be girl #4. Think about it, and yourself, and if you ever come close to having s*x with this guy, it's because YOU want to and it's NOT to please him, because guys aren't worth it, no matter how hot or popular they are.

Hope you make the right choice

Take care

rem♥

  

Answer 3

I did the same thing at 16.  I wanted to lose my virginity because almost all my friends had and I wanted to be a part of those kind of talks with them.  Looking back, I wish I'd waited at least until college.  s*x when you're in high school is weird.  It makes relationships confusing and it's very possible to get hurt (emotionally) and get a nasty reputation, not to mention getting pregnant in high school (ugh!) or an std. Not to mention, no matter what you're friends say, it's really not that good when you're that young.  The guys don't really know what they're doing and you're probably going to be too self concious to really enjoy it - I doubt very few high school girls have ever had an o****m.  I think it's just better to wait until college.  I think you'll have happy with that decision.

Answer 4

if you really love him and trust him. i was 15 when i lost mine and were still together, and he wasnt a virgin either. we used protection also.  I just enjoyed the whole thing because it was with him and i wouldnt wanna lose it with anyone else.  I could see your friend saying youll regret it if he just had s*x with the other girls and left them but if he didnt and he wont do that to you, go for it

Answer 5

Everyone always told me that you never forget your first time. I didn't believe them because I didn't think s*x was as special as everyone said. But now that I am older, smarter, and married, I know how special it is and I now know that everyone was right. I will never forget my first time, and when I think about it, I just want to kick my self for being so stupid (I was the same age as you). And I have never felt as bad as I felt the day I married my husband, because I kept thinking about my "first time" and how it should have been with him instead of one of my boyfriends. If you think you are ready, than no one can stop you, but I really hope you wait. Good Luck, and I hope you don't regret your decision.

Answer 6

You will remember you first for the rest of your life.  Do you want it to be your high school boyfriend, or the man you marry?  Who will treasure it more?  Take it from a woman who waited until marriage; I promise you will not regret waiting.  You probably will regret losing it now.  And don't take advise from other teenagers.  Listen to someone who has had years to think about it, not someone who doesn't regret losing it a few months ago.

Answer 7

girl im 17 and a full time mother, s*x can cause pregnancy!!!!! condoms break. very easy, wait til your older. but if youve been with the guy for a like a year and hes fully commited then maybe s*x is okay but be prepared anything can happen!

Answer 8

i was 16 when i lost mine, it was due to innocence on my part and ignorance on the others part as it was my first time and did not really concent as alcohol was involved, i am 24 now and in a relationship for 6 years and i was a bag of nerves the first time i done it with my (NOW) partner as i felt used from before and i didnt think it was SPECIAL, me and my partner are building a house now and have 2 kids, and i wish he was my first because if i had met him first i would not have even thought about drinking because i felt so comfortable around him and could be myself, YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THE TIMES RIGHT AND WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, dont make the same mistake i did, just wait. It will be worth it.xxxx

Answer 9

look...losing your virginity is a big deal. It can really affect you in ways that you cant imagine. Dont go into this thing head first....really think about the consequences. s*x is wwway over rated. s*x can make you or break u and 9 times out of 10 it breaks you. Your virginity is something to be cherished. I had mines TAKEN from me. Be sure that this is what you really wanna do. Just because you knew him for a long time doesnt mean your ready to have s*x. You said he had 3 partners before you..now your #4....and hes #1...its going to mean alot more to you than it is to him..so YOU have to decide if you really are ready for the emotional rollercoaster ride that follows. BE ABSOLUTELY sure you are ready for such a big step. Please be sure. Because personally i believe that s*x really is over rated and that you could really wait longer because its not that serious. What is s*x going to do 4 ur relationship?..a relationship without s*x is way more interesting because you guys have to find different ways to please each other with s*x. That gives you more time to make your relationship stronger and give it character that way when you are really ready to have s*x you wont have to ask yourself are you ready because you will just know...

Answer 10

Well, I am surprised most idiots have already lost it at 15, the fact your asking US about YOUR s*x life just shows how stupid you are!

Answer 11

You will always remember your first time, if thats the guy you stay with forever, who knows!! I say if thats what you wanna do, do it!! Dont regret it after its done though!! I lost mine when i was 16, it hurt really bad and i bled but, it gets a whole lot better once youve done it!! Do what you feel is comfortable, if you think hes the one, go for it!

Answer 12

ok i lost mine at 15 and it wasn't pleasant, i regret it soooo much. I wish i would of waited til i was married!!!! Don't do it!!!! Waiting is the Right Thing!

Answer 13

losing your virginity is not every thing that you aspect it to be at 16 years you need to just think about the big things in your life right now there's all ways going to be boys around you may think that he love but at the hole time in hismine is that i can't live yet i did not get in her pants boys now days just want one thing and thaths to get inside them pants trust me i been there and done all that keep him wanting it for as long as you want just because he is ready don't mean that you have to be finish school find out what you want to do in the future but i'm telling you this now once it happen your going to get hook to it and that will mess up your thinking. p.s good luck