His mom makes snide remarks putting me down and laughs with it to make it sound like a joke, you know? His dad constantly tells hubby how to do things. The thing is, we've been married 20 years and only children haven't fought with them, but since moving within 30 miles from them, things are worse. So hard to keep my mouth shut! Continue to do so? I'm tired of them putting us down when clearly we treat them better than the other 3 kids who have nothing to do with them except phone calls. I regularly have them over for meals and they know they can stop for a visit anytime. We've been very good as far as making them feel needed by asking their input on stuff, etc., and yet they act this way. We both are feeling we are going to have to distance ourselves from them if they continue this way.
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