Ahem... Personal question?

Question

I plan on staying a virgin until marriage... I just want to know, since all the questions like this one are years old, do guys respect this? Do you guys think you'd break up with a girl of she asked you this?

Answer 1

I didn't.  But if I had chosen to do so, I would make sure the man I am with knows that.

And a good man will respect you and honor your wishes

Answer 2

i am doing the same thing. and i thing men do respect this b/c it is a big challenge to do!

Answer 3

omg i want to be a virgin too..and no guys wont take us serious they will probably just want us for s*x you have to abstain say no..and if they say they want s*x dump them  

Answer 4

I myself am a guy, and I am saving myself for marriage, so no, you sound like a girl who is right up my alley.

Answer 5

I am a man and not American but I would like very much to give my opinion

Yes, yes and yes. It is better to be a virgin until marriage and it is better for your partner also to be as well.

I don't know if your motive is religious or just that is what you need but any how it is wonderful to get your experience in sexual life together you shall have great memories only mutually shared, with no other one to interfere in between

I hope that I have correctly given my point, for me, of course me and my wife were virgins at the time we got married and I can assure you that up till the moment after 16 yeas of marriage we are still experiencing new techniques together and it is wonderful. we are building life together in so many aspects

Good luck

Answer 6

I’m really thinking about waiting until marriage but its easier to make a decision like this right now since i’m not dating. i am happy to still be a virgin but sometime i feel like i cant tell anyone because they’ll judge me. I honestly don’t see why it would be a bad thing to wait till i’m married but at the same time i would be the only one in my family who would make such a big decision since all my sisters have chosen to do it with their first boyfriend, wich i completly respect. I realise now what a big mistake it would have been to have s*x during my teenage years since i had such low self esteem. Everyday i become a stronger woman and i am proud of that.

Hopefully i will find a man who love me as much as i love him and who will respect my decision.

Answer 7

I think this is a very legitimate choice and if this is what you desire then it should be honored.  Truth is, if a guy would break up with you over this then you don't want to spend any more time getting to know him anyway.

Answer 8

Hi!  I'm 14 and have been planning on staying a virgin till marriage for years.  I love your choice and i wish every one would do that.  The way I see it if the guy breaks up with us because we're staying pure till marriage then there not worth it.  Both of my sisters found men who stayed pure also.  I hope I helped you, Good luck!

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