Ahhh, please help me....?

Question

ok, so im a sophmore in high school, and im friends w/ a freshman in college (so obviously hes a legal age, and im not). hes not really attractive, but u cant help but love him as a friend. hes sorta asked me out (not entirely, he just asked me wat i would say if he asked me out, and told me that we should date). he keeps coming onto me, telling me im beautiful & cute, and he just seems like the perfect guy... just not for me. i feel really bad that i dont like him back, and he knows that i like someone my age. i just dont know how to handle this. im still friends w/ him, and i want to stay friends w/ him, i just wish he would stop trying to come onto me.

hes told me that he wants to read these really sweet poems to me in person, and things like that, and i just wish he would stop b/c i feel so bad that i dont say the same things back... because i wouldnt mean them...

i really dont know what to do lol.. please help(:

thanks !;D

Answer 1

I don't think you can be friends with this guy. It's not fair for you to continue talking to him when you are not really interested and he's in heat for you. Be strong and break it off. Tell him the truth, that you are just not ready to get involved with someone his age. He'll be ok and you will be stronger for having the character to do the right thing.

Answer 2

tell it to him straight. if he likes you and respect as a friend then he should back the h**l off.

Answer 3

all u gotta do is tell him that u wanna be friends, and still hang out with him and when he comes onto u, tell him to stop

if he was ur friend, he would stop and respect the fact that u guys are friends

Answer 4

Let him know up front that you and him can only be friends and that you two still can hang out. If he still comes on to you, do say stop and if he really likes you and all he would stop. If not then tell him that you 2 can't be friends any more if he won't respect you.