Aim married for 14 year and my husband it not romantic. ?

Question

What can I do if aim shy .I don't like the why I look.

Answer 1

if your not confident in your self how can you expect him to be romantic. when your around him do you make rood comments about your self. if so then that's why your lacking the romantic part of your relationship. he probably feels uncomfortable when you do that.  

Answer 2

My Grandmother always said " The reason men stop being romantic is because women stop making the men work for their attention and or other things."

You cannot simply expect one to keep playing the game if the other stops......

Lets face it, life is a game...

And if you want to be happy, then you have to make men work for your affections...

Answer 3

makeover time

Answer 4

Whats the real question?  Be confident, your husband must think you are absolutly beautiful, he married you. Alot of men aren't romatic and some define romance diffefrently than we do :), maybe do for him what you find romantic...that gives him ideas for the future  

Answer 5

Thats your problem hun.  Dont rely on your husband to get the romance started.  You do not have to like the way you look believe me.  Can you really see yourself without a mirror?  Its all in your head.  Go get a makeover if you want to, but really you need to feel "in the mood".  Light the candles, get the rose petals, go away for a weekend, just you and your husband.  Im pregnant and as big as a house.  I look a mess everyday.  I am MARRIED.  My husband chose me.  He wanted me out of every other woman in this world.  Yours did too!  14 years is awesome.  Marriage has ups and downs but we make it through!  Your husband knows that you are special and even though YOU may not like something about yourself how do you know that its not something your husband loves?

Answer 6

Go get a make over. Go to a stylist you trust and have and have him cut your hair, color it and get some new make up, outfits etc.

You are in control of you. If you say you are shy you will be shy, if you say you are beautiful and confident then you will be.  

Answer 7

First of all you need to love yourself first, and then everything else will fall into place.  I was the same way with my hubby and once I realized that if I didn't love me, then why should he.  Once I grew comfortable in my own skin our relationship improved.