All about forgiving?

Question

I was liking this girl at my class, one day I decided to confess my true feelings for her, she thought about it after class and said no,she ask for forgiveness and ask if we can just be friends and I was deeply hurt when she said that and I stayed mad at her for a couple of days, she kept saying apologizing after a couple more days I decide to forgive her, after a couple of days we started fighting about a very simple thing, and again I stayed mad at her for days, and again she kept apologizing but this time I didn't forgave her because I'm afraid to be hurt again because I've been hurt a couple of times mostly by the people I love until now she is still apologizing, Should I forgive her or not?

Answer 1

i will hate you if you will not forgive her. she is acknowledging her mistake then you are thinking if you are going to forgive her. respect her decisions.

Answer 2

I still don't believe she should need to apologize! Maybe she's the one needing help here! :)

Answer 3

I completely understand what you mean. And I know how hard it is to get hurt again like that. Here's my opinion, don't completely ignore her and act like she's not there. Just don't let yourself get too close. Keep at a safe distance so that the pain is farther.

But, if one day you can't keep away from her, I wouldn't blame you for going back, sometimes you just can't help but go back.

Good Luck with everything!

I hope i helped!

Answer 4

I do the same thing man, I hold grudges and have a hard time forgiving, but don't just forgive her because she apologizes, forgive her because you think it will be worth it

Answer 5

Forgiving people is something we do for ourselves.  It's not for the other person.  Give yourself the gift of forgiving and your heart will be lighter.  If you believe this person will continue to hurt you then you can move on to a new friend.  Holding a grudge or bad feelings towards people we care about just robs us of energy.

Answer 6

dude if you really have strong feelings for her, then i suggest you just forgive and forget. it takes a strong mind and will power to forgive especially after you have been hurt emotionally so be strong and be brave. just forgive her and hopefully, you two can sit down and talk about it more thoroughly and figure something out

good luck mate and remeber, just forgive her

Answer 7

She do not love you, it is reality, everybody can not love everybody...It is not an excuse, so there is no subject to apologize.Accept that rule:

If you love apple, apple does not have to love you...