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i had been dating this guy for a month and for the first 3 weeks he use to always call me we talked all the time and when he told me he'd call me back he always did even if he was really tired he would call to let me know he was gonna go to bed... things changed after that he stopped calling me and when i called him he'd answer and tell me he was with his friend and he'd call me back in a few minutes and he never did he did this for 3 days and i finally just got fed up with it so i called him and i told him that i wanted him to try and find time to call me and that i didn't have a problem with him spending time with his friends but he needed to find time for me as well i was very nice about the situation...well the next day he called me and he was kinda being a jackass so i got off the phone...for a week he didn't call me he wouldn't answer any of my phone calls..i called him today and he didn't answer so i called my friend and told her hey Johns not been calling me and he won't answer when i call so she called him and he answered..i was so upset i started crying..she told him that he needed to talk to me more...after that i talked to her and then i called john myself and hour later and he answered this time was different i wasn't to nice about the situation this time i felt i had a good reason to be angry and upset...i cried the whole time i was on the phone with him and i yelled at him and he was just a smartazz about and agreed with everything i said and he wasn't taking anything i said serious...i asked him if he still cared about me and he said he didn't know and he kept trying to get off the phone trying to run from the problem..i told him that if he got off the phone not to bother calling me i said this because i was angry and i was hoping that would make him listen to me but it didn't he said well fine bye...i was thinking about the whole situation afterwards and i just kept thinking did he do this on purpose so i would break up with him i was confused and i din't want things to end up like this so i called him back be cause i wanted to level things out and try to get it back the way it use to be because i odn';t like giving up on other pple i care about...well big mistake i guess because he told me he thought it was stupid that i told him not to call me back and i ended up calling him that really hurt me and he finally told me that he didn't know what he wanted and that he was tired of my complaining and thats why he stopped calling me...im really confused and heart broken and i don't know what to do i mean he told me he cared about me a week ago and now he doesn't know if he wants to be with me i feel like he's given up on me...is all of this my fault or is he just flipped out i've tried so hard to make this work and he hasn't done anything should i just stop trying too pleas what should i do im confused and i need some good helpful advice and please don't be hateful i think i've been through enough today the last thing i need is an idiot on the internet being stupid
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