Almost 15...haven't started yet???

Question

I'm 14, 15 in september and i haven't started my period.

My mum started when she was 13/14, and i still haven't started...i get some discharge now and again..oh and i'm not really skinny but not overweight somewhere in the middle closer to overweight.

I don't have very big b***s either...I know everyone is going to say it's fine but sometimes i feel like i'm never going to start..

please help reassure me...thanks :D

Answer 1

hahaha hun. one day you will be thinking about this question and be wondering why you were worrying. my friend was 16 when she got it! no worries! you are lucky thats all. it will come when its meant to come. relax and enjoy the age you are. who knows...you could get it like tomorrow or something. just always bring an extra panty liner with you. dont try tampons on your first period because you usually dont have very much the first time. your body just is telling you that it doesnt want any babys!!! relax and enjoy. : )

Answer 2

ahhh. same here. im almost 15 and havent started yet. ok so today i my stomach was hurting really really bad and i had diarreeaha and a little reallly reallly light blood was on the toilet paper and thats it. i dont know what it is though?

Answer 3

You have no need to worry as this is perfectly normal. Women who start their period later will also reach menopause later so it is actually a bonus. If you are really worried go to your GP or practice nurse for some re-assurance.  

Answer 4

aw sweetie! My mother and sister and me started at 16. u WILL start, and enjoy the time you have without periods! they are terrible, and i bet anyone who has them envies you! i certainly do! theres nothing really special about periods, and not having them doesn't make you any less of a woman! They don't mean that you've suddenly become a woman, they just mean you're physically ready to have a child. so what? you don't want to think about babies untill maybe your late 20's so theres really no rush at all!

hope this helps  nd u will start soon!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 5

It doesn't matter. Thank god you haven't started yet. You'll probably start around 15 years. Lucky you.

Answer 6

One of my cousins started when she was 19! Seriously don't worry about it, you will get your period in due time. It's not something anyone can rush its up to mother nature, just enjoy things as they are, and it'll come before you know it. You're kinda lucky, I started when I was 8 and I was still playing with barbies lolz! I'm 16 now and wish I started when I was around 14/15!

Don't stress, hope this helped! -x-

Answer 7

Height and weight have absolutely nothing to do with starting your period.  Neither does the size of your b***s or any other physical characterics.  You should be starting it soon, just relax and let nature run its course.  If you haven't had a period by the time you are nearing 16 talk to your doctor.  

Answer 8

Don't worry sweetie...my friend started when a week before she turned 16.  There is nothing wrong with starting late...infact i wish i had started late!!!  More enjoyment when you haven't yet started!  About your b***s, they will develop in time.  During puberty we do put on weight so don't diet or anything like that.  Oh ye, don't let friends get on your nerves if they start talkin about it...you will start when your body is ready.  Just chill out and enjoy not havin a period.

Keep smilin!!

:-)

XX

Answer 9

don't worry. When you're over 16 and you have yet to have your period then you can be concerned. I started my period when I was 15 so no need to worry. However if you are truly scared you can always go see your doctor and she can send you to a female doctor to have your ovaries checked but in my opinion be gratful that you're not washing blood out of your pants just yet.

Answer 10

starting your period is a hormonal thing.  most girls wont start until they hit a certain weight.

if you are a petite girl then thats why.  if not, then you could just be lucky.  puberty will hit very soon.

Answer 11

every girl goes through puberty at different times some girls don't get there periods until they're 16 so dont stress about it!

Answer 12

There is nothing wrong with you. Your periods will start when your body is ready. If they have not started by the time you are 18 you should go and see your doctor.

Answer 13

Don't worry about it!

I didn't start until I was almost 16!

Periods come when your body is ready, and when you do start you will feel something and think 'Hmm.. That's not normal!'. It won't be much either when you first start. Plus, you should be glad you haven't started yet!

I'm 17 now, skinny-ish and I'm 5'1", and I've always had small b***s!

Don't worry about your chest size, if that's what a guy wants in a girl, then they're just an a**hole!

So theres no need to worry!

If you have any more questions I'd be happy to help!

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xx

Answer 14

Dont Worry Youur Not Wierd cos youu havent started.

Be Grateful !

Lmaoo , Youur Body is just a bit slow and belive me when it catches up it will hit youu with a BANG !

so take advantage of the situation.

Hope i Helped x  

Answer 15

Don't worry yet, people start at different ages some people don't start till they are about 17 or 18 so don't worry your completely normal  

Answer 16

dnt worry you cant force it to start, the time will come, but if it never ever comes, you wont be able to have children, or just go to the doctor, you still have plenty of time:)

Answer 17

dont worry your fine itll all happen sooner or later anyways enjoy it while you can my girlfriend says her periods a *****!

either way its all ok everyone starts everything at different times

Answer 18

Your only 14!!! One of my close friends didn't start till she was 17 I'm not even kidding!!!! She barely started when we were already seniors!! Trust me sweetie it isn't something that you want!! IT sucks

But if your really  worried then you just need to see a doctor so that you know for sure nothing is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 19

Lucky You!!  Dont rush it because it sucks!  Everyone is different, I knew a girl who started when she was 11 and another who started when she was 16.  Dont worry about it, it will happen and when it does you'll long for the period free days again.

Answer 20

if your that scared then go to a doctor and talk to them, even though your not alot overweight, it can still affect your period, it's best to talk to a real doctor, not everyone else's opinion.

Answer 21

no problem trust me everyone starts at a different time dont worry it will come and its a clue cause u r having dischrage so thats good no worries relax it will cone when the time right ur body is still changing slowly and geting used to the changes it will come!!!

Answer 22

every body is different i know girls that didn't start to over 16 don't worry don't fret will only make it worse and delay it longer relax they will start then you wish they hadn't so chill and just let nature take its course you are not abnormal relax and enjoy life

Answer 23

don't rush things, be thankful you haven't started yet, getting your period is a royal pain in the a**.

My sister was 18 before she got hers.

Answer 24

Trust me, that's normal. You might not get it until you're 15 or 16. Believe me, you'll be wishing that you never got it once you get it.  

Answer 25

I got my first pube when I was 18.  Imagine how that felt in the showers after gym!

Sounds like you still have some 'puppy fat' too. So just keep healthy and everything WILL work out.  Some of the prettiest girls I remember at school were the later bloomers.

Often they were the sweetest too. ;]  

Answer 26

Periods arent fun,  Cramps bleading not being able to swim not cool.  I got my first one a month ago and i suucks.  You can hae it as ealy as 10 and as late as 19.  i was a 32A when i started.  small haha so yah

Answer 27

if you don't get by 16 then you should see a doctor I first got mine when I was nine so you should be lucky it will come in time

Answer 28

don't worry .. everybody 's body is different.. my cousin didn't get her period until she was 17.

You'll get it .. just be happy for now that you don't have to deal with cramps,bloating, and all that gross stuff lol :]

Answer 29

your not missing anything trust me! its messy, painful, and not a great experience.  I got mine when i was in the 4th grade!! i wish i could have been like you so i could understand what it was before it happened! it will come when its time, until then, enjoy yourself :-)

Answer 30

Hey sweetie if it makes you feel better my "ladies days" didnt start until I was almost 17. Every girls body is diferent, you cant compare your body to anyones elses. Its okay just be glad and enjoy life with your period its just a pain. It shows up in the middle of everything thats important!! Dont sweat it...

Answer 31

Don't worry about it some people don't start untill your age or maybe even a bit older. Some people would say it's a good thing not to have started as you don't have any stress :) Personally I agree. :)

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