Almost 18 and never been kissed?

Question

I'm turning 18 years old in October and i still have never kissed a girl...not even on the cheek. I don't think that it's because I'm ugly, i just think I'm way to scared to make a move and get rejected by it. I'm terrified that a girl will think I'm a loser the first time i try to kiss her because I won't really know how to. I don't know when to go for it, how far to lean in or if i even should lean in, should i put my hand underneath her chin? Should i go right or left? Should I go for a passionate kiss or just a peck? Ugh.

Answer 1

I don't know if by the time you read my answer you've already kissed a girl. I hope so, but if you haven't read up then...

With only one kiss you can tell if the person likes you or not, sometimes you can even tell if that person is for you or not.

Rejection is harsh, but at the same time, it's better to find the truth than to be lied to right? So don't be afraid of rejection, remember that kissing should be natural. Some girls are a bit more agressive than guys. A typical girl would probably want you to kiss her, but at the same time she won't let you know because she doesn't want to be labeled as "easy".  Therefore in society the guy is the one expected to go for it.

Since you are not experienced, I would just ask "Can I give you a kiss?" and see how she reacts. There is nothing wrong with rejection. If you are feeling her by asking her you are showing her respect. But it also gives her room to think about it and either reject or accept the proposition.

Example: I'm an experienced kisser BUT I am also shy... I liked my best friend and I knew he liked me, but because we are friends, I knew he wouldn't just kiss me right away and I took it upon myself being a girl (who cares you know) and when I was leaving he was standing in front of me and he asked me what was I thinking and I told him straight up (about kissing you) and he smiled, and said, go right ahead. So I said, OK and I went right ahead, it was one of the greatest kisses ever. soft at first but then passionate, you gotta go with the other person's flow. It's like a dance, you both have to be in tune...

Kissing is great, specially if you both like each other... Oh by the way, I was 26 when that happened with my best friend. We still friends. I'm 27 now. So it doesn't really matter the age, or how many times you've kissed or anything. As long as you both like each other it's all good. If you get rejected, it doesn't necessarily mean the other person doesn't like you. It just might not be the right time. But the more practice the better you get, so Go for it... and try to get honest feedback. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

Start with a soft peck. As you gain confidence, work your way up from there.

Answer 3

well just when you meet the right girl it will come natural just do think about it before doing it that makes it aquard<_--sorry cant spell and if thatr doesnt work wait for a girl to kiss you