Almost 30 years old...time to go?

Question

I've been living with my dad for the last 15 months because I ran into financial problems but now I have some money saved up. It would be nice to stay here longer and he says it's no problem but I am concerned that I'm not "living my life" You see, I was living on my own for some years until last year and I was even engaged and everything. After I moved in with my dad my fiance and I broke up (he had mentioned once that he felt weird visiting me at my dad's, and I don't blame him one bit). After that I tried dating a guy for a little while and my dad knew when he was over and everything and even told me "you can't have him over here again." So for the last year I haven't dated anyone and that's because I don't feel like I can have anyone over! Well here I am almost 30 yrs old and I'm just kinda wasting away not dating because I can't have anyone over. I don't live in the house with him...I live on top of his garage but still..all he has to do is look out the window. Help me please...should I move out so I can have a "life" again or should I stay to myself and keep saving money?

Answer 1

You need to move out.

Need to get a male friend, and have some fun.

Answer 2

I think you must save money for now.. If you can say to yourself your ready to move then go..Its your security must first consider..

Answer 3

You should move out if you want to live your own life.

Answer 4

Put a time limit on how much longer you will stay and how much more money you need to save.  If you date, don't bring them home or invite them over.  You apparently got yourself into trouble financially and don't sell yourself short over wanting to date again.  Hang in for a few more months until you are more stable and then move out and get that life started again.  

Answer 5

Move if you don't feel you are living your life.

Answer 6

Its great you respect your dad's wishes, and its great that he is willing to help you like he is, but you need to live on your own. It sucks having a roommate at 30, but that might be something to consider if you can't afford rent entirely on your own(I don't know what your financial situation is). Thirty is way to old to have anyone tell you what to do, or put restrictions on you, it just doesn't set well.

Answer 7

definetly move out.

Answer 8

Oh my gosh that reminds me of the movie "Step Brothers"

MOVE THE h**l OUT AND GET A JOB

Answer 9

move out

Answer 10

now at 30 you have learned what not to do when you live on your own, so move out to a place you can afford and don't make the same finanical problems you did before, saving is good but what are you saving for it you can't live your own life?