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Question

I'm 15 (female) and 99% of the time I sleep completely naked except for when its cold when I put some underwear on (not a bra though).

Quite often my 10 year old brother comes into my room in the early morning and sits on my bed staring at me naked, alot of the time he tries to get under the covers with me.

When me and my friends have sleepovers (slumber-parties to the Americans =P) we often just sit around in the hosts bedroom naked talking etc etc (Nothing sexual) But we do compare chest sizes and take showers together. Even when there are lads there. (The lads are also totally naked).

We also all sleep naked, sometimes 2 to a sleeping bag / bed.

So the questions are:

Is it normal for my brother to do this?

Should I EVER let him under the covers with me or continue to shoo him like I normally do?

Is it normal for a 15 year old to sleep naked?

Is it normal for me and my friends to sit around naked so casually?

Is it normal for us to compare our breast sizes?

Is it normal for us to take showers together and share sleeping bags?

This is un-related but may aswell ask:

Is it normal for a 15 year old to shave 'down there'?

Please answer as many as possible =)

Thank you =)

Debz x

Answer 1

So the questions are:

Is it normal for my brother to do this?

NO, you need to speak with your parents about this.

Should I EVER let him under the covers with me or continue to shoo him like I normally do?

You should lock your door, tell your parents or sleep with clothing on. A 10 year old brother SHOULD NOT see his 15 year old sister nude and sleep in the same bed.

Is it normal for a 15 year old to sleep naked?

Yes and No, it depends on the situation.

Is it normal for me and my friends to sit around naked so casually?

No, that is not &quot;normal&quot;

Is it normal for us to compare our breast sizes?

Yes, that is normal.

Is it normal for us to take showers together and share sleeping bags?

No, that is not normal at your age

Is it normal for a 15 year old to shave &#039;down there&#039;?

Yes

Answer 2

Hmmm if you thought it was normal then perhaps you wouldn&#039;t be asking....

I just find it unusual..... that&#039;s all i&#039;m gonna say.

Answer 3

I think it&#039;s not normal for him to try to get into bed with you, but I think it is normal enough for him to look at you naked. He&#039;s probably enchanted by you being almost a woman, and he&#039;s curious.

Don&#039;t let him under the covers. Just sleep with a small blanket that you can wrap around yourself like a towel when you notice he&#039;s there. Speak to your parents again and insist that that is what he does. At any rate, there are motion sensors you can buy if someone opens the door it will make a loud noise. If you can&#039;t get one of those try to sleep with a camera or something and take a picture of him when he comes in.

It is normal for a 15 year old to sleep naked.

Its not normal when you invite boys. It&#039;s also normal to compare breast sizes.

I have taken a naked bath with my best friend only once, but when I was like 12 or 13. It&#039;s also not normal when you sleep together naked. Sleep in your own beds/bags.

It&#039;s normal to shave down there too.

Answer 4

I would say that everything you do is normal, as I&#039;ve done the same when I was your age. With the exception of having the lads with you at your sleepovers, to me that sounds like asking for trouble. Regarding your little brother, not having seen exactly how he acts I can&#039;t make a definitive judgment, but it sounds harmless to me. However, since you apparently feel uncomfortable with what he&#039;s doing, I would say do something to make him stop, but since your parents believe his side over yours in the issue, I can&#039;t think of any good suggestions.

Answer 5

First off, I don&#039;t think the fact that you sleep nude is weird at all.  I&#039;ve been doing that for years and can barely remember the last time I wore anything to bed.  If fact, for as long as I can remember, I have preferred being nude whenever I could.

As for your brother, the fact that he&#039;s interested isn&#039;t really weird either.  He&#039;s at the age when he starts noticing girls but he&#039;s not mature enough to direct his attraction appropriately.  Many young boys will find sexual attraction in family members at his age (though they won&#039;t likely admit to it), but it it really more curiousity than anything and its not likely he&#039;ll actually try to do anything to you.  If he bothers you, and it sounds like he does, talk with him and your parents about setting some ground rules.  You are becoming an adult and you should have the right to privacy.

For the sleepovers, I wouldn&#039;t classify your behavior as &quot;normal&quot; as it isn&#039;t really commonplace for kids your age, I don&#039;t think, but I don&#039;t really think there&#039;s anything wrong with it.  When I was your age the extent of my nudity at sleepovers was while changing or playing games like truth-or-dare or strip whatever, and when it happened it was usually only for a minute or so that I was actually ever naked.

Growing up often wanted to be nude but didn&#039;t because I thought I was weird for thinking that way.  In high school I started going nude when I was home alone, but that was it.  In college I was lucky enough to be assigned to a room with a girl who was raised a nudist.  She exposed me to the world of social nudity and I&#039;ve never looked back.  Now pretty much any time I have guests over everyone is naked and no one thinks anything of it.  Naked is the best way to experience life, IMO.  I kind of envy you for figuring that out sooner in life.

Girls compare boob size all the time, especially at your age.  That&#039;s perfectly normal.

The only time I&#039;ve ever really showered with another person (other than boyfriends, but that&#039;s a whole nother story) has been in locker rooms.  Still though, showering with another person in a non-sexual context, while not really &quot;normal&quot; is not necessarily a bad thing either.  Sharing sleeping bags seems a bit odd to me (there isn&#039;t a lot of room in there), but whatever floats your boat, I guess.

As for shaving down there, when I was 15 it wasn&#039;t really common for anyone to shave down there, no matter the age.  Now it seems to becoming more and more popular.  There&#039;s really nothing wrong with it one way or the other, its just a personal preference.  Personally I like to keep it clean down there myself.

Answer 6

Yes it is normal. There is nothing wrong about being naked under the sheets.  I do it all the time as well.

Its great that you are so comfortable with social nudity.  

Answer 7

1.Its not really normal for your brother to do that.

2.Never let him under the covers with you.  If you can&#039;t have a lock on your door then put somethin on the door so he can&#039;t push it open, like a chair.

3.Its pretty normal for you to sleep naked.

4. Its not really normal to sit around naked so casually.

5. Every girl compares her breast sizes to other girls.

6 Pretty normal to shower together but not share a sleeping bag.

7. Most girls shave or trim down there by your age.

Answer 8

No it is not normal for ur brother wanting to sleep with u while u are naked. Sure he may be curious, but u may want to stop now before it gets out of hand when he becomes older. It is very odd for u and ur friends to sit around naked...definitely not normal lol....girls compare breast sizes all the time so that&#039;s normal...the showers and sharing of the sleeping bags are definitely weird...that&#039;s probably y ur brother thinks it is ok for him to do what he does...I have a question, when ur brother sleeps with u, is he naked too??? Shaving down there is pure preference, as long as u do it properly, who cares? lol

Answer 9

i think its hawt wanna have a sleep over 15yr old male :) but in all seriousness i wish girls did that here more often jeez i dont get why not we all know what a body looks like naked why should we even have clothes by society&#039;s standards its not normal by mine it is and how it should be that&#039;s how this used to be no one wore clothes at one point u knowi think clothes are stupid and a waste of money it shouldnt be illegal to be naked society needs to change things we are all human and have the same &quot;parts&quot; seporated by guys and girls of course but we al know what the counterpart s*x looks like

Answer 10

I think if you and your friends are nudists than this would be OK. I&#039;m new to nudism, but I&#039;ve been chatting with some people who grew up as a nudist and nude sleepovers seemed common when they were with other nudist teens. Likewise, if everyone in your family is nude too, then you might not be weirded out by your little brother coming into your bed. It&#039;s definitely not common and I think it would take a pretty close-knit family life to not be weirded out by that. It&#039;s not something I would go around telling people.

As for sleeping naked. Lots of people do it, especially at your age. I started sleeping nude sometimes when I was 14 and by the next year I think I slept nude almost all the time. My GFs and I never sat around nude at sleepovers and if I stayed at a friend&#039;s house and didn&#039;t stay in a guest room, I usually slept with PJs on.

Comparing breast size is somewhat normal. I streaked through my friend&#039;s house naked once when we were playing truth or dare and our HS swim team had some initiation rituals that involved nudity, and we showered before and after swimming, but naked sleepovers weren&#039;t something we ever did. We never had boys at our sleepovers.

I&#039;m 19 and I&#039;ve been getting my pubic hair waxed completely since I was 15. All of the girls on my swim team either had thier bikini area fully waxed or shaved or else they just had a landing strip or some other small trim.  

Answer 11

Is it normal for my brother to do this?

It&#039;s normal for little children to be curious so I&#039;d said yes if he&#039;s under 10

Should I EVER let him under the covers with me or continue to shoo him like I normally do?

Umm lol no mean to sound rude to anyone who disagrees but I&#039;d said it&#039;s not appropriate and you should shoo him away. If you&#039;re dressed then it&#039;s fine however.

Is it normal for a 15 year old to sleep naked?

Most people do(or in their underwear) whether they admit or not

Is it normal for me and my friends to sit around naked so casually?

I don&#039;t know anyone who does this but to each their own, if you&#039;re comfortable with it then thats fine. Personally I don&#039;t but I&#039;m uncomfortable with being naked around people

Is it normal for us to compare our breast sizes?

Yes girls tend to do this but it&#039;s usually in their heads and not made verbal although I do know people who do talk about it. It is quite normal

Is it normal for us to take showers together and share sleeping bags?

Umm again I don&#039;t know anyone who does. This one does not seem normal to me no offense but again to each her own it just shows that you guys are close friends and comfortable with each other.

This is un-related but may aswell ask:

Is it normal for a 15 year old to shave &#039;down there&#039;?

It&#039;s personal preference, about half of men and women do the other half don&#039;t. I know much younger who do it&#039;s normal but like I said it&#039;s personal preference.

Answer 12

everything is normal including the pesky brother. Keep shooing him away or simply tell him you dont like it. Everything else you do is normal. Relax and enjoy.

I wish I could have nude slumber parties with the girls.

edit: kelsie has a point. If your family is nudist then what is the problem If you are a nudist but not them then I would shoo him away. My two boys are always nude and they slide in nude beside me. There is no shame. Unless it feels funny to you.

The body is beautiful never be ashamed of it.