Am 20 am i so old??!?

Question

i know its silly question but i wonder am i too old? can i still play and go out like u or like the other on my age?! OK i get married when i was 16 and now i do not know if i still young.... my mother in law make me fell like 50..! as she... am now do not know how i should act when i 20? PLZ help! what shall i do .....i feel like i did not live my 16 or 17 or any thing i feel my life go and am not using it ....it will go and i will not use it on the right way....:(

PS : i have a 2 years baby!!!

Answer 1

no your not old. but maybe you a little immature to have a kid and to be already married. and try going to grammar school. reading that is like reading a 10 year old's book report.

Answer 2

i feel ur pain am 23 now

i feeel d**n old cz every 1 makes me feel ugly n old

dont worry

there is so much in life

am planning to learn guitar

sometimes i feel am too old for it

but lets just do what we want instead of whining

hun ur baby is ur best friend

go ahead n have fun  

Answer 3

You can act however, If your reponsible to your kid.

Im 19 and have twins and I still go out (with my husband of course!)

to rock concerts and stuff. I get my mum to babysit, lol

Answer 4

please

you are to young. you shouldnt even be thinking kids yet but your at the age where you probably are

I see you have a child already, that was something you did and chose to do whether on purpose or not.

you just started early thats all. You will be finished early as well and you can enjoy the best days of your life then.

I had my first child at age 22 which I feel is kinda young as well.  

Answer 5

I hear this all the time from my bf(he's 25 i'm 19) he tells me to grow up blah blah blah. How are we suppose to act 6-10 years older over night? Just be yourself dont let anyone try and change you, if they dont like the way you act, its their lose. You are who you are you have your own personality.

Answer 6

since you cant even string a whole sentance together i would advise you to go back to school

Answer 7

No you are not old!!!  You did get married too young but sometimes its the price you pay when you play.  Talk to your spouse, not the in laws or anyone else and live your life to the fullest and grow together not apart.  Good luck

Answer 8

Just because you got married and had a kid at an early age doesn't mean your life has gone down the drain.

yes, maybe it wont be the same now.

but your not even 21 yet,that's your partying age.

get a baby sitter go out with some friends. have some fun for yourself.

you don'tt even have to take your husband, if you don'tt want to.

Answer 9

I guess it's probably too late to tell you to stay in school, so I will say:  go BACK to school!!

Answer 10

u are not old dont panic

Answer 11

I"ll say that as long as you are responsible with your baby and partner>>> act a fool on ur free time... does ur mother in law pay your bills? If not, they annoy her for being nosey... LOL... Enjoy your life as long as you're not putting yourself or anyone else in danger...  

Answer 12

yah you pretty much ended your life quickly at a young age.

now you have things that a 28 year old should have to worry about not an 20 year old.  

Answer 13

You are not " OLD ", you have taken on a lot of adult responsibility.

Work to take care of your baby.  You and your husband should make some time every week or so to go out by yourselves and have some fun.

That will ease some of the tension hopefully.

As your child gets older you may even be able to go back to school if you want.

WISH THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

Answer 14

It would be a lot easier to answer your question  if we knew what the h*ll you were saying.  

Answer 15

Go out and parttyyy!=p

but not every night becuase you chose to have a family and a husband at 16. Not the best choice but thats what happend and you cant earse the past. Maybe if you confronted your mother in law and tell that you are 20 and she makes you feel like shes 50 will help i hope it does!

Good luck sweetie!

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Answer 16

your still young

your young until like 40 i think haha

so go have some fun

Answer 17

your still very young

Answer 18

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Answer 19

ok hun take a deep breath...and no you are not to old to have all the fun you want to...no matter what age you are you not to old...if you want to go and have fun and you have the energy to have fun GO AND HAVE FUN...as long as your baby is taken care of and has his or her love from their mommy then don't let anyone like your mother in law tell you how to live your life...it's your life...your the one that has to live it..take care ok  

Answer 20

Since you have the baby, you should act more like an adult that if you didn't. But that doesn't mean that you can't still hire a babysitter once and a while when you and your husband go out;-)

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