Am Asian, when i go 2 the mall (usually by myself) people most of the time stare at me, is it weird that I ?

Question

go 2 the mall by myself...

Answer 1

No, and if they are staring, they might be thinking you are attractive. Just because someone looks at you doesn't mean they are thinking negetive thoughts! Lighten up... gain some confidence. People shop alone all the time. I am assuming you are younger, because once you get a bit older, you'll learn to give the people the middle finger in your head. You can always imagine them in their underwear, too! It will make you smile, and people aren't so put off when they see a happy face! Also, it might be where you live. People in this country don't seem to like 'different'... which is their problem, not yours!  

Answer 2

Lots of people go to the mall on their own.

Could it be that people are staring at you because you're staring at them? That happens with me from time to time.

Answer 3

h**l na i' am Asian  2 and i know some people do satre but they just lookin at you not in a racist way. and goin to the mall alone is fine lots of people do it

Answer 4

I go places by myself every single day. It doesnt matter what people think of you just what you think of yourself. I walk with my head high because i dont give a **** what people have to say. If they dont like me for who i am...******. its not weird at all.

Answer 5

I don't think so. I'm Indian and 90% of the time I go to the mall by myself - and I've never been stared at. Also, I see others there by themselves as well.

Answer 6

Where are you living? I'll go to the mall with you then or you can go to the mall where I live by yourself. The people where I live don't stare at us like that. If you live in a populated Asian community, then they won't stare but if you live in a community where there is like an Asian for 12 blocks, then they will stare at you. Just chill and relax, who cares about them and just about your own way, but watch for your safety. And it would be better if you take someone with you to go to the mall if it's not safe.  

Answer 7

Nope! it's not wierd that you go to the mall by yourself. However...ahem...ahem....hehehe, I should confess that even I would stare at you like crazy-you guys look sooooo cute!!!! how can we resist staring at you...lol...seriously, those Asian eyes, that friendly attitude, you people are so sweet to everybody whether dark-skinned or not-so-beautiful, that shy smile, that unhideable blush....awww...so cute!!!

Do I sound over-excited?.....k....sorry bro.

Answer 8

STOP. People are not staring at you. You think they are, but 99.99% of the time, they aren't even though it looks like they are. You look fine, and this is America or Canada or whatever FREE country you're in. There are many people who look far "weirder" than you and people aren't wasting their time staring at anyone.

If someone is actually staring at me, normally I just stare back. After all, if they're staring at me, I have the right to stare at them. If they think I look weird, I probably think they look weird too!  

Answer 9

You should never look at someone if they're staring at you. It'll make you feel like the higher person. It always worked for me!