Am I A Flirt?????????

Question

kaii so here's the deal, lately my friends have been making fun of me and calling me a flirt, player, tease, and so on because more and more of my guy friends old and new have started liking me. i'm not sure what exactly is going on because this is all still new to me.

this is me, so they're obviously not liking me for my looks or my giant nose.

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so i want to know what it is that i'm doing! i need to know how to just talk to a guy as friends. i thought that's what i was doing, but apparently not.

it's just that it's getting to be a problem because my older brother's friends have been talking to me more and more. one of them asked me out and the drummer in his band is always calling me. so now the rest of the my brother's friends are complaining and saying that i'm stealing them away and that i'm trying to score with everyone, and i really don't want anything to get back to my bro because i really care what he thinks.

the situation is far more complicated than what i described. can you imagine that?

so i need some tips!

and please don't think i'm narcissistic because i'm really not. it's quite the opposite. exactly why this is all new to me!

Answer 1

yea u are kinda hot. just dont lust after people or dress unmodestly and you'll be fine.

Answer 2

maybe your b***s have developed recently?  

Answer 3

First off your not ugly one bit.

Well if you think its all a little strange it might be. . . . . .

1. You might have been set up by your friends. There teasing you about it, so it may be that they told these boys to start liking you so they can get a rise out of teasing you.

2. You might have changed and not noticed. Maybe theres a little something different and these boys are liking it.

3. Maybe you are a tease, and these boys are getting the wrong idea when you flirt. And you might even be flirting and not even realize it.

4. Maybe a rumour has spread that you dont know about. Believe me guys talk and when they talk it doesnt get out to us girls, so either you did something with a guy and he told another guy and that guy told another guy, get it? Or maybe someone just doesnt like you and they spread a little lie around.

5. Maybe your something they cant have. You know. Just friends. Guys hate that and they allll ways try to get more.

6. And last! maybe these boys really do like you? I mean come on, your not ugly.

Answer 4

Posing for a photo with your head tilted like that and your asking if your a flirt.

You brothers older friends are just bugging you or you really are a tart using your girlish charm and pouty lips to get want you want.

Try avoiding them and dressing down a little and not wearing lips stick.

Answer 5

well maybe its the way you flirt with them.. cuz thats wat is happening to me right now.. although i dont take wat they say to heart... maybe its the way you flirt or either they finally noticed you.. you never know.. but just be your self.. who cares wat others say... your being you...

Answer 6

Okay i know exactly how you feel,

like, 2 years ago i was the biggest flirt at my school but i was completely unaware of it xD

I was already getting attention from guys because i started getting a little chesty so when the guys flirted with me, i flirted back and eventually it became a habbit, like a very unoticable one

until my best friend called me a flirtbag wh*re so that caught my attention xD

But about a year after that i met the love of my life and my attention was soo focused on him i stopped flirting with everyone except him, because he is just gorg. xD

So try and find yourself a guy your really into and he should take your mind off the other boys

Btw you're friends might just be calling you that because theyre jealous of the attention you're getting. tryy not to milk and and they'll  get over it x]]

Good luck!<3