Am I Weird????? Or Does this Happen To Other People As Well?

Question

Ok so everytime i am sad and i am about to cry i don't and i can't but as soon as sumbody says "what's wrong" or "are u ok" i start bursting out crying for sum reason..is there something wrong with me?

Answer 1

Sure does. It is brought on by a high level of female hormones.

Answer 2

nothings wrong =]

Answer 3

Theres nothing wrong with you at all. That's perfectly normal.

The reason that makes you cry is because, when someone says "What's wrong?" or "Are you okay?"  you are forced to come to the realization that something is wrong and you are not okay. The reason you don't cry is because you lock those feelings away and don't think about them. So when someone asks you about it, it's like they're opening a door to a closet that's full of stuff. When the doors pulled open, it all spills out.

Answer 4

I hope this makes you feel better :]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4nsI02gn...

its helps me! xoxo

Answer 5

Nahh its normal.  Mayb its just because you can't really put what is upsetting you to words so the only response is to cry.

Answer 6

No lol I do that too sometimes too!!

Answer 7

You sound like you might have depression.  Contact your doctor.

Answer 8

no. sumtimes i do that so if we're crazy we can both b crazy. :)

dont worry, be happy now.

Answer 9

Mariposa,It seems that you have a tough time letting your guard down.  You bottle up your emotions that whenever someone comes to ask how you are doing,You let these emotions out.  Don't keep these emotions bottled up like so.  If you feel sad,Then have yourself a good cry.  There is nothing wrong with expressing this emotion.  It does happen to other people.  Some fear to admit it though.  But not you and I am proud of that.  I think you are truly a wonderful woman.  Hey,If you ever need a shoulder to cry on or someone to talk to.  I'm not to far away.  You are always welcome to ask me anything.  Also,I really enjoying cheering up someone so beautiful as yourself.  My name is David and it's an honor writing to you tonight.  I'd bow before you out of respect for you.  Someone like you deserve to be treated with love and respect.  Mariposa,I'm sorry but I must leave.  :(  Hope to hear from you soon.  Have a goodnight and God bless.  Bye for now.

Answer 10

I do that too. Sometimes I can't even hold them in that long!  

Answer 11

As children our parents believed that every tear is their fault,and they feel bad because parents ca not fix everything. so they tell us not to cry, everything will be ok.  So we suppress our tears and when someone comes along and asks why we look so blue or down, we can't help but see their sincerity, how much they care, all this wrapped up in  kindness so, in the moment, we need someone to lean on. So the tears flow and we feel better just because someone wanted to hear our sorrow or sadness.

It happens to me too... tears are a way for the soul to cleanse itself...its good for you, that is if you are not suffering from depression, then that is a whole new ball game...

Sometimes we just need a hug too...here's a hug for you...

Hhhuuugggg

Answer 12

I dont know, but i'm bi-polar and that used to happen to me!

Answer 13

Of course not, its a trigger that tells your brain to start crying.

Its perfectly normal, I even see it in movies and stuff XD

Answer 14

Nope, you sound perfectly normal to me. You hold it in, until someone asks. Then you think someone cares enough to listen and you let it all out. Sounds normal to me.

Answer 15

It  sounds as if crying is the only way you feel like your communicating the way you really feel.  Most people do that at one time or another. There is nothing wrong with you.

You are not weird... just very emotional.

Maybe when you get things resolved emotionally this will happen less often.