Am I Weired or just going through a phase ?

Question

When people ask me to go out like my real good friends i always worry that they want to get me beaten up and i cannot sleep at night thinking bout what might happen to me or if somethings gunna happen to my family . Whats wrong with me am i just weired or is it a phase

Answer 1

You are worried because it hasn't happened to you before and you are probably finding it difficult to trust your friends again. Just stay away from the people that you truly believe want to get you into trouble or danger and you should be fine. I worry about my family too. I wish they didn't live in such a scary place 'cos every day I worry about them and thinking that something bad will happen to them. We all worry over time you will realise there really isn't much to worry about. You will only get singled out if you've actually done something wrong.

Answer 2

You are not weired you are just going through a phase you sound like you are a teen or a p*****n around the age of 13 your hormones are starting to kick in and you are feeling different things talk to your parents they will understand or talk to a really close friend about your problem. Hope this helps best of luck:)

Answer 3

my guss is its a fase

Answer 4

if there is something bothering u then this might b wat is keeping u from going out and u just need to trust god to help u take care of urself

Answer 5

have you watched any weird movies. you might have had a childhood experince that you forgot about. calm down! if you didnt know yet, you live for a while before you die  

Answer 6

ur not weired its ur friends why woud thay do that

Answer 7

seek help for anti-anxiety....  It could be a phase or something you need to seek treatment for!

Answer 8

Well i had the same problem i would stay up all night turn on every light i could find and get soooo scared of wut mite happen i did that almost every night sometimes i would have to go to the bathroom wen no one was up and id be too afraid to open the door and sometimes i would cry thinking about wut mite happen. but one day i wasnt even looking for advice it just came to me from my sis we were talking about rollercoasters and said that ill get over my fear like she did because she was sick and tired of being scared all the time so i thought about and relilized that everynight i stayed up it made me more scared soo i just relaxed and Knew i was gonna be ok always just think on what is happening not wuts gonna happen and itll be over in no time thats the secreat dont over think it and dont think wut if !!

Answer 9

isounds like a phase that you are going through i used to think the same way and some times still do think if i go hang out with my friends what is ging to happen to me so dont worrie just be cool but be aware of whats going on and always watch your back  

Answer 10

sounds like your very paranoid or have had some major trama in your life. depending on how old you are maybe it's just a phase that will pass

Answer 11

it depends ... are they realy good freinds? cuz if they r really good n u think theyr guna beat u up then i think there is sumthing more than jus goin through a phase. talk to ur freinds about it. are you on drugs? drugs can make u think tht.  

Answer 12

Your obviously worried for a reason. But what is it? If you can't trust that you can go out with people you call your good friends then there has to be a reason.

Go with your instincts to do what makes you feel safe, but at the same time work towards uncovering the reason why you feel something will happen if you go out.

You have to live your life, go to school, work, socialize etc. To have a happy healthy life. Talk to someone like a school counsler, therapist, church leader, parents somebody, before this gets out of hand. You could close yourslef up and shut out the world and  that's just not healthy.

Take a self defense course, karate or boxing class if your concerned about not being able to defend yourslef should someone actually try and harm you. And if you still feel your friends are going to set you up, try making new friends!  

Good Luck  

Answer 13

No its not a phase, something might have triggered these thoughts, you just gotta figure out what, due to the fact we are conscience beings we are able to play out things in our mind to go about them safely. I would talk to someone(inperson about these thoughts)its nothing to go crazy over, but you must come to an understanding with them

Answer 14

it's just a phase.  you are probably very good hearted and your family is very fortunate to have you.  

Answer 15

I think you might have Acute Paranoia. Or maybe some other paranoia disorder. Don't be afraid to go to a psychiatrist to get diagnosed because they can give you something to help relieve what you're feeling. Good luck.

Answer 16

you are PARANOID thinking your freidns might set you up and get you beat up "it has happend to me" so dont trust anyone its good to be caususe your just watchful thats a good thing to have  

Answer 17

It could be any, most probably a phase.

I had this type of "Paranoia" and it wasn't nice but all you can do is talk to the people you are worried about, I used to get worried when my older sister would go out at night and so i was allowed to ring her when she was out and check that she was ok. My family think this was caused as recently a friend of mine had died, unfortunately by murder. This could have triggered fears off in my mind, maybe something has happened that you are worried about. Talk to your family if you haven't already it really helps.