Am I a bad boy for cheating?

Question

If I cheat on my spouse - am I automatically a bad person?

Answer 1

You are human, but you should have controlled your urges.  Next time ask your spouse if maybe she would like someone else to join.    

Answer 2

yes

Answer 3

yes you are.

Answer 4

Yes.  I can't understand why people do such a horrible thing to another person..have you heard the word "RESPECT"??

Answer 5

why did you even bother wasting a question

cheating is bad.

it doesn't makr you a bad person it just means you made a really wrong desicion

Answer 6

yes, your getting intimate with another woman, when your spouse is the one you have an emotional and physical commitment too. To me cheating is both having s*x or getting an emotional attachment to another. Both are bad and both are hurtful to your spouse. If you're truly in love you wouldn't cheat, just break it off instead of hurting her by going to another woman and sharing something that when you're committed should only be shared with your spouse.

not to mention its selfish

Answer 7

basicly, yeah...

Answer 8

yep

Answer 9

The answer to both your questions is YES.

Answer 10

ya, no brainner  

Answer 11

yes. if you cheat on your spouse then I automatically think you're a horrible person. People like you make me sick to my stomach. In a world with so much cheating and lies, you're doing nobody any favors. All you'll be doing is sucking pond water the rest of your sad existence.  

Answer 12

Yep..