Am I a bad person for wanting some revenge ?

Question

I used to be friends with a girl who was a b**ch to almost anyone she was jealous of. If someone looked or dressed better than her, she would shut them down and put them down. She ruined a lot of my relationships with old boyfriends as well, and I hated myself for not standing up to myself. Now were older, and I hear that she has a real rich boyfriend in a serious relationship. It just ticks me off that she did all of these bad things and she ended up all good in the end. Is it it bad of me to want some form of revenge on a person? I just want her to be back stabbed like she always did to me...

Answer 1

if you sleep with him you might feel better...

JOKE.

dont lower yourself to her level. youre so much better than that honey. just feel the fact youre being the bigger more mature person in this and revel in that. youre strong. you dont need revenge. but no, youre not bad. its natural. just dont act on it.

maybe itll make you feel better to think up a few plans. dont act on them but map them out on a bit of paper and save it. then you can look at it if you feel mad/bad/sad.

hope this helps and good luck babes. x

Answer 2

No but your a bad person if you actually do something. Don't lower yourself to her level. Can you really live with breaking up a relationship. Karma/God/Whatever always deals with people. If her personality really is that bad it's bound to s***w her over somehow.

Answer 3

The Golden Rule "Treat others as you want to be treated"  Just cuz she did bad things to you doesnt mean u have to stoop to her level bcuz that just makes u as big of a bully as she was.  Ur better than that so i would say dont get revenge bcuz if u do then u will nvr 4get her evil ways + she will get u back and u wouldnt want that...again.  Act mature and if u all cant then u all have no business in being in a relationship now do ya?

Answer 4

no if i were you i would get some revenge. like they say ''what comes around goes around''

Answer 5

Yes. The fact that you're asking this question should tell you that revenge is never good.

Let karma and the universe deal with her. I'm sure she'll get what's coming. And, if she doesn't...why do you care? Why don't you do what makes you happy and live your life the way you want. Her life has nothing to do with that.

Answer 6

Go for it girl give her a good kicking better still i will come round and kick her *** for you who needs enemies when you've got friends like her. x*x

Answer 7

No your not a bad person, its ok to be angery, but its not to take it out on others.

If you seek revenge then you become just as vile as your trespassers.

Forgive but don't forget

Answer 8

He will probably see her for the little b**** she is and dump her and humiliate her. Let others do the work. Just sit back and relax and move on with your life. She isn't worth your time.

Answer 9

dont worry about dont step down 2 her level u are better than that and she aint so dont even worry move on and do wat u have 2 do 4 ur life