Am I a lesb ian or bisexual or sumfing?

Question

kk im worried about how my body looks so i came acrsoss a website and i saw a woman masturbating and i kept watching it but i did not feel anything when i watched it but i am really really really feeling really guilty because i shouldnt have watched it what do i do?????

Answer 1

Nothing. Your fine. Stop stressing. Your not bi or a L*****n. Chill out!

Answer 2

watching a woman play with herself does not make you a L*****n or bi. most heterosexual women feel turned on when seeing a woman play with herself...that's totally normal. most hetero women get more turned on watching a woman play with herself than by watching a man play with himself...it's because womens' bodies are sexier than mens', or maybe because you can relate to it as a woman. Anyway, there's nothing to feel guilty about.  

Answer 3

im straight but have done things with girls to experiment plus ive watched a video of a girl masterbating and kinda got me horny !in a straight way!) dont feel guilty, its perfectly normel and other people do a h**l of alot worse things so chill!!

Answer 4

You are not a L*****n or bisexual its completely normal to be curious.  Men watch p**n all the time and that has different p***s's in it.  If you were g*y for watching the same s*x do their thing every man in the world would be g*y.

Answer 5

You are fine.

It happens.. it doesn't hurt to be curious.

Answer 6

what do you do? dont watch it again! youre not bi or lez, youre not born that way so its your choice if you wanna be, dont worry about it you didnt feel anything when you saw it so it didnt mean that much to you.  

Answer 7

to see another woman masturbating doesnt make you a L*****n.

dont feel guilty, just forget about it

Answer 8

how old are you? you carried on watching it because you were curious.

Answer 9

You should get over it

Answer 10

its a normal feeling. and its good that you felt bad about it, that cleary signifies  that you are not a L*****n, or bi as a matter of fact.  

Answer 11

I've watched g*y p**n, does that make me turn from a straight woman to a g*y man?

Don't be so silly.

Answer 12

its ok you can feel comfortable around anything you want and thats your right and if you dont feel comfortable then your not guilty its ok to like things or not.  

Answer 13

curiousity is nothing to feel guilty about...

Ive watched g*y guys getting it on (on the internet of course, not in person)  and by no means am I attracted to g*y guys ... I am a straight woman...  but I am not turned on by it... I just wanted to know what they do that's different than a heterosexual couple.

and if you are bicurious or L*****n... you'll know in time... if you keep going back to look at them... or feel turned on/excited by it... and want to have a woman then you'll know you are bi or L*****n

if you do not find anything exciting about it, and don't want to do anything with a woman then you are not bi or L*****n

Answer 14

Whats Done is Done. Youve Already Watched It. Dont Worry Though, it Was Just Purely Out of Curiosity. Many Females Discover Strange Things About Themselves Due To Their Hormones. This doesnt Necissaraly Mean Your a L*****n or Bi-Sexual. You will Come Across Alot of New Things. If YOu Didnt Feel Anything Then Fine. But To The Fact That You Watched it..Dont Feel Guilty. We All Get Curious Sometimes. Just Because You Watched it Doesnt Mean You Feel Attracted to Females. We all Look at People of The Same s*x as Us But its Not Until Later on in Life When We Discover Who We Really Prefer. Males or Females. Its Completely Natural So Dont Waory about It. (: Hope i Helped.

Answer 15

Woman are so different from men when it comes to this subject. A woman watching another woman m********e does not make you anything but normal. Not everyone wants to admit it but it is normal. Woman seek out things from other woman that they can not get from the male species. Curious maybe, you are who you are and in time you will know what you are. Being g*y is not a bad thing it is not the wrong thing it just is. Watching another female does not make you g*y. Being g*y is in your DNA. With woman and homosexuality it is not about s*x, well not all the time, it is abot finding that closeness, affection, understanding that you can only find in another female. As the saying goes, who better to please a woman than another woman...  

Answer 16

Yeah! You're totally a L*****n!! Just Kidding.. that doesn't make u a L*****n... if u were u would know it... I am and  darn sure know it :)

Answer 17

don't feel bad about it, women get turned on by p**n and such just as much as men it doesn't mean your L*****n  

Answer 18

It is normal at your age to be curious,Your feeling for the small screen don' t mean aanythingJust pass...

Answer 19

Well there's one thing for sure: if watching a video of a masturbating woman didn't turn you on, then it's a pretty safe bet that the sight of an aroused woman isn't a sexually interesting thing for you.   You're definitely not a L*****n if this is the case.

This guilt thing you're feeling, though?   Forget it.   It's a waste of your emotional energy to feel badly about something that you've done unless you've hurt yourself or someone else by doing it.  

Who got hurt?   You?    I don't think so... I mean, it didn't even interest you enough to do anything you might regret (although why anyone would regret being horny and maybe getting off by masturbating is another question altogether), and it certainly hasn't done the woman in the video any harm.

I presume you did this in private and no one else was watching, so there were no *others* involved who could have been harmed (although again, who the heck gets harmed anyhow by just seeing a girl watching a video or maybe enjoying her body because of what she's watching?)

As for bisexual... well, that's a presonal decision and it's something you're gonna probably ask yourself over and over again as you get older.   Hey, I still ask it of myself sometimes if I see a particularly good looking guy in a really erotic scene with a woman, and I'm almost 50 years old and straight as an arrow as far as I know.

Finally, even if the video itself or the women you see "performing" in such stuff never turn you on, you can sure do a lot worse in life than to get a good look now and then at how *other* women pleasure themselves...

... most people (men and women both) sometimes get stuck in patterns and "ruts" with their s*x lives - even in their masturbation - and it's nice to get a fresh look and a new idea or two now and then.

It's all just part of normal "growing up".  We all do at least some of that stuff, and even the parts of it that we don't get any particular pleasure out of can still be helpful: we can learn in private about all the things we like... and also find out about all the other things that we *don't* like.

It's good to think of it that way whenever you find yourself watching or reading about other sexual stuff that you're not accustomed to.... because  when the time comes that you're with someone special and want to get into something sexual with them, you'll know much better where to set your own comfortable limits on any sexual fun you have with them.

Really.   Don't worry about this stuff, OK?   It's a really important part of life, sure, but there's nothing awful or "bad" in seeing and knowing about all the ways people "do it", and it's certainly no cause for guilt.