Am I a virgin? Did he break my hymen?

Question

Okay, so my and my boyfriend got a bit into what we were doing, and eventually we started having s*x. I didn't even notice, really. After a while I just saw that he was trying. I wasn't ready, so I told him to stop. I was a little sore from the fingering. And he went a little in (not even the head of the p***s, I think, went in).

Well two days after, I'm still spotting!

How is that possible?

I swear I thought he only went a tiny bit in.

Is it possible that he went all the way in when I thought he was fingering me?

Wouldn't it hurt a lot more?

Do you think my hymen broke or he just cut the wall of my v****a with his nail or something?

Answer 1

The only way for you to tell if your hymen's been torn is to look at your hymen and see if that's where the blood is coming from.

Get a hand mirror between your legs and look at yourself "down there" as you open things up with the fingers of your other hand.

It's *possible* that he got more of his p***s in there than you thought... but even fingers can tear a hymen without much difficulty.

Tell you one thing, though... you'd better be on the lookout for signs of pregnancy.   There's no such thing as "safe" p***s/v****a contact - ever.

EDIT:

Oh... and the instant *any* of a man's p***s gets inside your v****a, you're no longer a virgin.  That's the definition of it.

Answer 2

if his p***s entered your v****a at all, you are not a virgin. your hymen is often torn before you have s*x anyways.

Answer 3

Wow I don't know what those first two answers were about. It think that most likely it will be a tear on the wall of your v****a from the fingering, especially since you said you were sore from it. It is possible that he broke your hymen if he entered you, but I think a cut would be more likely.

Was he wearing a condom? Make sure he wears a condom.

Also if you say no, it means no, so I don't know what he was thinking go in! Maybe talk to him about it.

Answer 4

What, your definition of a virgin is an intact hymen? Only your doctor can say for sure what is going on here. Yes, it IS possible he "went all the way" if you were aroused enough to be well-lubricated and for you to not know it happened. See your doctor. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. Famous last words, "I'll only put the tip of it in..."

Answer 5

It not good for girl not know. Why you say yes, not stop, ok, no? It not good for man the friend. He leave you soon. You get older next or go in for lessons more. I talked daughter the same. She know more about this to enjoy the love.  

Answer 6

you might be pregnant

Answer 7

Did his p***s go in your vag? If yes, then you aren't a virgin. 8=====D--::

Answer 8

It may not be your hymen, it would have just bled and been over with quite quickly if it was that.

He maybe ripped you a little bit? It should heal itself but if you're very worried then you could go see your doctor. I wouldn't but it's your call?