Am I a woman or what?

Question

I am just wondering how society can say one is a man vs. a woman. Is it how you are born, or the behavior you embrace.

For a crossdresser like my self, who is born a man, but to bring up sterotypical characteristics of women, shopping gets me excited, I love wearing dresses, skirts, make up, and that s**y pair of panties just makes me feel so good. Watching a movie, and a tear can come to my eyes.

So my body might be of a man, but I like to do things that society typically says are characteristics of being a woman.

Am I a man, a woman or a no body?

Answer 1

Society doesn't say it, your body does.

A Cat can THINK it "should have been a dog," it can do dog things and like dog likes, but it's still a cat. A cat can NEVER know what it's like to be a dog, because it's never been one.

Hate to break it to you Toots, but you're a guy...

Answer 2

if you are an adult who is biologically male, you are a man. But men come in all sorts of personalities and I wish that society would allow more men to express emotions and enjoy beauty.  I don't think those things are only for women.

I suspect maybe you have some sort of mommy fetish.

Answer 3

You are whatever you want to be. If you want to be a woman go for it.

Answer 4

You're a woman!

You should have yourself made completely female

Answer 5

Woman soul trapped in a mans body.

I'm interested, are you attracted to men or women?

Answer 6

Your a transvestite. Just because something makes you feel one way doesnt mean physcially you are.  

Answer 7

You are whatever you want to be. I'd say if you want to be a woman than you are. The worlds first pregnant man, does not have a p***s, but he is legally a man because he chose to be.

Answer 8

You're a dude who likes to shop and wear panties. I'm sure if you asked most females what it is to be a woman, they would not say wear skirts and like p***s.

I'm not saying that there is something wrong with you but inventing all of these additional genders and sexualities causes even more confusion. Someone is not one thing simply because they don't like the societal stereotypes. You're a man, who prefers of the aesthetic qualities that go along with being a woman.

Answer 9

You are a person.

Answer 10

You're a man.  The "Y" chromosome doesn't lie.  Your wardrobe undoubtedly costs more than mine though!  lol

ON EDIT:  I just remembered a very old French expression -l'habit ne fait pas le moine

[literally, wearing a monk's clothing doesn't make you a monk]

It means that you shouldn't judge by appearances.

Answer 11

You are a jellyfish.

Answer 12

Well by biology we have two main genders, and a third mixed gender.

Society set the two gender standard despite the over whelming population of others genders.

So be who you are and dont worry about anything else.

Answer 13

I'm female.  I love wearing jeans and hiking shoes.  Fancy lingerie has always seemed like a waste of money.  I love computers, electronics and video games and I hate shopping.  I loathe chick flicks and love action and sci-fi and cheesy horror.  None of these makes me a man.

You're a guy who likes wearing dresses.