Am I acting paranoid?

Question

I just found out a couple of hours ago that one of my ex boyfriends died in a motorcycle accident 3 days ago. Thinking about this made me realize how much my current boyfriend meant to me and how much I loved him. I've tried calling him numerous times in the past two hours and I haven't gotten an answer. He usually always answers or gets back to me within a half hour. He did say earlier that he was going to try to go to bed early tonight since he was tired from work, but I've been calling him since 9:30 and usually it's hard for him to fall asleep anytime before 11. He called me at 8:40 but I didn't answer bc I was driving.

So am I just being paranoid? I've called him atleast 10 times bc I'm scared he might be dead too.

Please someone, talk some sense into me.

Answer 1

You just need to calm down, relax, perhaps listen to music? (I listen to metal)

He's probably just REALLY exhausted, work might've been much harder today. To directly answer your question, yes you are being paranoid. But it'll be fine. Tomorrow you'll be talking to him and you're going to laugh at yourself for being silly. And you're going to give me 10 points by rating my answer the best and then we both win! And everyone is happy :).

Just remain calm and relax. I like to watch movies when upset.  

Answer 2

I'm sorry about your ex- it's absolutely sad and unfortunate. Your current boyfriend is most likely ok! Just let him call you and relax.  

Answer 3

yes you are being paranoid : ) toss back a drink go to sleep and wait until morning and give him a call my guess is hes sleeping  

Answer 4

He might have just gone to bed and too tired to get the phone.

Answer 5

just look out for yourself, and youll be fine

Answer 6

Now you are nervous and feeling deep sorrow unconsciously. You are okay to think about your ex as much as you can. But your current bf is completely different person from your ex.  

Answer 7

That is very normal....It's way worse when you have kids.   It's just part of life being like that.When things happen it makes you stop and think!!!

You'll feel better probably by morning.

Answer 8

r.i.p to that doode.

andd dont worry about it trust me hes probably busy or something or hes actually sleeping dont worry at all ok? Just wait till tomorrow and h**l call you if he doesnt and its like  6 pm already then u try calling him!  

Answer 9

not sure if paranoid but all u r is scared of losing ur current boyfriend. Im sure lots of ppl do this and it wears of after a little wile

Answer 10

Yes. But I don't blame you. You just seem really emotional because of what happened, and that's ok. All you need to do is relax is take a step back and look at the entire situation. You should probably take some time to see your boyfriend tomorrow, and if he doesn't have free time and you are able to see him at work, you should. It will make you feel better.

Answer 11

Yes, you are acting paranoid. When he eventually calls you back, you're going to feel pretty dumb that you stood around worrying all this time. What would happen if YOU died tomorrow. If he doesn't call you back soon, worrying isn't going to do anything. Stop wasting away your life and do something else to take your mind off him until you get a phone call back. Go read a book or watch tv.