Am I anti-social?

Question

-i HATE meeting new people

-i dont speack a lot aroud anyone but my small group

-i hate people

-i enjoy being alone

ive been like this scince 3rd grade and i dont like it and want to know what i can do. i only talk to people i know and thats it nobody else and i hate my voice ect. and what can I do and I hate taking risks.

-.- please help

Answer 1

I think you answered your own question with your 4 points.

Answer 2

anti-social people don't care about others

They see other people as important only in meeting their own goals.

If you care about some people you are not anti-social

If you want to change yourself you are not anti-social

You do sound self conscious which can be a disability but not is not a clinical condition. Unless you have social anxiety disorder.

Answer 3

Your not anti-social, I think you just realize that most people self centered jerks and not worth your time...

Answer 4

that sounds EXACTLY like me,

Answer 5

You don't sound anti-social at all, you just seem to be introverted, unsocial. There's a difference between the two and I believe that they rarely co-exist in the same person.

Unsocial behaviour is normally a personality trait which involves shying away from people and social situations, without really hating the people themselves. A good example of unsocial are people with 'avoidant personality disorder'.

Anti-social behaviour is bearing ill will towards people in general, and lacking the ability to relate to others. In other words, sociopathic behaviour. A good example would be many of the serial killers and rapists we hear about.

That said, the only potential anti-social attribute from your list is "i hate people". But considering that you cared enough to ask the question here, I doubt it meant that you literally hate them.

Answer 6

oh dear, you're not anti-social, in psychology, anti-social individuals are those that usually kill and perform criminal acts,

i cannot assume as you know yourself more than anyone,

but maybe, you're quite introverted. nothing wrong with that, just be yourself.

if you want to change, start now, from simple things such as meeting your friends' friends. something like that, you still have time to mature.

don't worry.

much love.

have a nice day! ^_^

Answer 7

ur not anti social, your unsocial

but as u say u hate people isnt it gona b hard to change as becoming more social is with interacting with people?

if u want to change it u have to be more sociable. people like nice happy ppl, they dont want to talk 2 misreable ppl that hates everyone.

dont fink bout the stuff u hate bout ureself (ur voice as u say) but always think about ur positives

everyday just try to talk to someone who u dont no, even if its just a hi it will boost your confidence

just be yourself ur proberly a nice person and there are many people that would love to be your friend, you just havent met them yet :)

Answer 8

Do you truly enjoy the way you currently live your life?

If yes, then most likely you are a introvert, and not anti-social.

Answer 9

well you are antisocial, but if you hate it it means you're not really

i guess you just don't know how to react(?) around people

and maybe you hate taking risks but try going someplace (like a bar) and start talking to the person sitting next to you

(don't sleep with them afterwards) or like go to starbucks or somewhere like that by yourself and um... sit near someone who's alone and start chatting with them

and if you hate the fact that you hate people e.c.t. that means you don't really hate them you're just scared of ...maybe what they'll think of you(?)

Answer 10

The reason why you hate people its because you hate your self and as long  you do not get help to find out why ; you have such a low self esteem ; you will never be able to become more social than you are right now . Its up to you to decide if you want to be happy or not ; yes life is about choices