Am I asexual? What is wrong with me?

Question

I am 18 and i have never had a serious boyfriend. When I meet a guy I don't think about how "hot " they are. Everytime a guy has kissed me I haven't liked it I have just felt uncomfortable. I don't think about or have s*x, and I don't m********e or anything either. Whenever I fantasize about having a boyfriend it is never of s*x. Is that normal? Does that make me asexual?

Answer 1

not asexual..

question, have you ever considered girls? if you're not into guys, you might like girls.

just a thought..

Answer 2

naw, ive only kissed a girl once and never and have never masturbated, tho i do think about girls, sumtimes in sexual ways, so ur not tht wierd compared to me.

Answer 3

asexual isn't what you think sweetheart. An asexual organism is something that can reproduce with itself. If you are unattracted to males, you might just be figuring out which s*x you like better. Some people aren't really into sexual things and that's normal. It's ok not to be sexual all the time. You may want to consider the fact that you may be into females more. Or maybe you just haven't met the right guy. It depends. You are still young and it will take a little while to find out what feels right. Until then you're perfectly normal. Just enjoy life and don't worry about the s*x stuff.  

Answer 4

you're probably just young and don't have all the hormones yet

Answer 5

h**l no you just haven't found that person who floats tour boat. It can also be a psychological thing for you that if you really wanted to change you could probably get help for it. But don't worry s*x, lies, and videotapes aren't a requirement for living.

Answer 6

Asexual means you don't have s*x to reproduce you just split in two so no you are not asexual. Do you ever think about girls?

Answer 7

When I was your age I felt the same way.  I liked boys (I'm a straight female) and I always had a crush on guys, but I never thought about s*x.  I always had romantic thoughts about holding hands, kissing, stuff like that but never thought about s*x probably because I had never even come close to having it.  I had a few dates and kisses, but I was never really into the guy, so I didn't feel much anything other than wishing it would end.  But eventually, I met a guy I liked, and we had chemistry and everything changed...So maybe you just haven't been with anyone you have chemistry with.  Give it a little time.

Answer 8

I believe the I am asexual too as I have no sexual desire/drive at all and I never look at girls in a sexual way.  I am not g*y either.  I have an autistic spectrum disorder so I think that is probably my problem.

Answer 9

Asexual is also used for psychological purpose, not only physiological.

You could very well be asexual, and it is nothing wrong with that.

Of course, you could have check it out medically to see if your ovaries are working correctly or/and your hormone levels are adequate.