Please read my story, advice is greatly needed! I love my boyfriend dearly, but he has a problem with paying for things. He earns a good wage, and so do I, but everything is always 50/50, he would never dream of treating me to anything, and as a result even though I would love to buy him lots of little gifts (which I did at the start), to show him how much he means to me, I just can't do it now cos he would never dream of doing the same in return. His parents weren't generous when he was growing up, so I think it comes from this. Apart from this, everything else is perfect, we have been together for quite a while and plan to stay together. Do you think if we eventually got married and had kids and I had to give up work to care for them, that he would still be as tight with money and have us living on the bare essentials? As it stands now, I have plenty of my own money, but when the time comes for him to support a family, I don't want us to have to go without because he would be too mean to support us properly. Should I walk away now, or will I regret it? I've always believed in the man being the breadwinner when it comes to supporting a family. I have no problem working hard now while I have no children and would gladly share everything I have with him if he was more giving.
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