So my gf wants to get married, and soon. I was all for it, however, she is a a very impatient and carries a lot of anger. She will blow up at the smallest thing. She is now mad that I am wanting to go to counseling first and try to resolve a few issues before the marriage. It doesn't mean that I don't love her, I just want us to last. In addition, when we get in bad arguments, she states that she can't and doesn't want to be alone. I am about to leave for a few months, I don't know if I am wrong or not. The arguing to me feels a little verbally abusive. I receive a lot of cuss words and put downs and reasons why I don't care, when in reality, I don't call sometimes because I don't want the day to turn sour. I have stayed every single time, but usually weekly there is an argument where she states that we are breaking up and shouldn't be together. She is now taking medication, she is showing strong signs of depression and of being bi-polar. But I can't leave her for that right? It is driving me crazy, because it doesn't matter how hard i try, she still ends up angry at something... please help... Is it too much to ask her to be calm and more patient with me? She thinks that I want to change her, I just want to be able to talk things out since I don't ever yell.
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