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Am I being lied to? PLEASE!?

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Okay well please answer even though its quite long :)

One of my best friends went away on holiday, and we planned to meet up for the day. I went to get the bus, but there was a storm and the buses were delayed for ages so I couldnt get there...

I phoned them up and told them that I couldnt make it and they seemed fine with it. But ever since then it feels like they have been avoiding me. Every attempt i make to meet up the y seem "busy" but a family member text me saying that they saw two of my best friends out together on a day when they were "busy". She wasnt spying on them, I havent seen ehr for ages btw (the family member).

ANd today, we were all supposed to be going out AGAIN. And someone phoned me up asking if I was free and said she'd call back with details. She never did so I called her and she'd gone round to one of my other frends. Why am I being left out there?

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  1. Dear, first of all don't mention yourself as unloved or unwanted. You know your father your mother loves you so much and your siblings, and more over the LORD

    Don't feel bad or guilty, because this does happens in any relationships under this world except that with LORD. You know even i faced situations like this so many times and still going through it.

    Don't worry its part and parcel of this flesh, but one person is there who will never leave you even if you curse them. Mail to my ID and i will surely help you about anything under the sun.

    Regards

    loved one


  2. hmm it does seem like they are avoiding you. have you ever actually asked them why?? i mean just go up to them "umm have you guys been avoiding because i couldnt make it last time?" listen to their answer and if they walk away s***w them...if u have ppl that r gonna ignore u for an accident s***w them...u dont need them in your life.U DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!

  3. I don't think it had anything to do with the trip. Maybe you did something else they didn't like or maybe they just like their other friends better.

    Or maybe thye are always busy.

  4. i think their just jealousing

  5. well i guess they just dont want to be your friend anymore:( not to be mean or straight forward, but thats gotta be the case.

    Ive been there before. I kept caling them asking to meet up etc. but they never seemed to bother, so eventually i came up with a great idea!!!! FORGET ABOUT THEM,LEAVE THEM TO THEM SELVES, AND DONTBOTHER CONTACTING THEM! :) and when they dont hear from you, they'll call you up, and maybe,just maybe, they will want to be your friend.

    But personally i would just forget about them,even if they call me up and ask to do something,since, they cant be good friend(s) if they did that to you in the first place...

    Hope it all works out and dont bow down to them, and run after them.

    Is it that worth it?

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