Am I being selfish or what?

Question

My bf hasn't been around a lot lately. He's been at camp where I couldn't have contact with him at all and stuff. My grandma was in a coma a few days ago and he went to his friends house where I couldn't talk to him cuz there wasn't any service. She died yesterday as soon as I told him he's like I'll be right over. He hasn't been over in a while, and now he's leaving again for a week to something he doesn't even have to go to. I feel like I'm being selfish and I should just wait for when he wants to be with me. But at the same time I need him real bad right now. There's more but if I write it no one will read my question cuz it'll be too long. But idk is it selfish of me to need him right now. I'm not telling him not to go anywhere I want him to have fun but I need him a lot. ANd he said I'm kinda being selfish. But I'm not stopping him from anything.

Answer 1

You are NOT selfish. I understand you need someone right now. Its very difficult to deal with death. He is obviously being a REALLY REALLY REALLY big jerk off. Only because he said you were being the selfish one. He either is too concentrated on himself right now or he just doesn't know what to do when it comes to death. Maybe he's never been through that and doesn't know how to react and comfort you. You should talk to him. Be straight forward. EXPLAIN your situation. If he still thinks you're selfish after this "talk" then don't even waste your time on him. Right now you should just focus on family. Not his dumb ***. I hope I helped. My prayers are with you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.  

Answer 2

no i dont you are

because you really do need him its not your fault

Answer 3

The only one selfish in this situation is your BF. This does not appear to be a two way love exchange. Youy can write to me if you wish to talk about this relationship (uneven relationship). I'll bet you have a lot to say abou it.

My email is [e-mail].

DenisP

Answer 4

You are not being selfish, you are expressing your love for him.

Well done, wish more girls were like you.

Answer 5

your not being selfish he should be with you now  you need him he is the one being selfish and he should consider whats important in his life you or his mate. sorry to hear of your loss.

Answer 6

ok your not being selfish not at all you want your boyfriend around you want time with him i understand that if he says any more rude thing break up oh and tell him that i said that your not being selfish