Am I being selfish???????

Question

I'm 19 years old and I live at home with my rents. My parents and uncle own a bed and breakfast and I help run it while I'm in college. They are helping me pay for school instead of giving me a paycheck which is cool and I earn every cent cause I work 24/7 even when I'm at school I still update the website and everything. Here is where the problem is my mom wants to go to Coast Rica for vacation she and my dad and my uncle are going to go and I'm not invited. They were trying to find the best deal tonight on a place to stay and my mom said if you can find it the cheapest you can go! and I was like really?! and she goes yeah when your older and you pay for it yourself. That made me mad so i walked away. Then she got mad at me for being mad and started telling me that I'm 19 years old and I'm going to college and I need to have my own life. Yet I cant drive cause I don't have a car so I'm stuck here all the time working. I don't understand! Am I wrong to feel the way I do? My sister who is much older and lives on her own in another state thinks they are crazy and cant understand why they are not taking me with them. PLUS! They are going when I'm on break from school! So I'm going to be stuck here at the house for two weeks with no car! AM I WRONG? And if I am not wrong can someone tell me what I can say to my parents so they understand where I am coming from?

Answer 1

Make some money while they are gone and buy yourself a car,YET if YOU were paying for college how much money would you have right now?

Answer 2

use the time to get some money to get urself a car.

and no i dont think ur being selfish at all.

Answer 3

two words... slave labor.