I am 21 and I live with my mom and 17 year old brother and 25 year old brother who is autistic and my mom. We are moving. I am a go go dancer and in college. When I started dancing, she insulted me and looked down on me. THat was three months ago and now she just LOVES that Im making alot of money. She loves it so much she asks me to pay the phone bill (which includes her and my brother) and the 3 months rent for when we move (5000 dollars). I feel it is unfair because my brother doesnt do ****. I also feel taken advantage of because of what she put me through when I first started dancing, there was a fight in the house every night. I work hard at work and school, Ive always been an overachiever. My brother cant even handle going to school. I think its unfair first of all that my mom (who I personally cannot stand, we just dont get along) and I are supporting the household by ourselves since I was 15 and my step dad left. Thats not so bad, but I also feel like she is taking advantage of me because since she knows I make money, she just expects that I WILL pay the 5000 on the new apartment and she just told me this right now she said "Well, I dont have the money". Also, now she just tells me to go pay the phone bill and it started out like she couildnt pay it one month so I helped and eventually became "Why didnt you pay the phone bill yet?" She is away on vacation now and I am left to take care of my brother and give him his meds every morning and evening (epilepsy). Am I being selfish or is this a messed up situation to be in? Even if its messed up, what else CAN I do? I cant just not pay her?
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