Am I being to harsh on my baby's father?

Question

My daughters deadbeat dad wont's to come to our daughters 1st birthday party but i don't wont him to because my boyfriend has became my daughters real father an i don't wont him to feel weird about her biological father being there after all the things he has done to me and all the things he haven't done for our child

Answer 1

no way are you being harsh.  

Answer 2

if he doesnt want to go then f**k him, your daughter dont need him, she has a new daddy, a real dad is someone whos there for her!! the other guy is nothing but a sperm donar and no way are you bein too harsh!!

Answer 3

I say if he doesn't want to be then let it be. The baby obviously has a father who loves her.

Answer 4

you should call him and ask him to come after all it is his childs first b day party and if ur bf really love u he wont mind good luck!