Am I being too harsh? A certain someone I was kinda seeing ditched me on my only 2 nights off.?

Question

So I'm mad and I just haven't been talking to him and he keeps saying how he loves me and he woulda rather been with me and he can't stand being away from me but if that were true he would have more more of an effort to hang out with me and the the other thing is that he never once has invited me to go with him and his friends and he is supposedly always just going fishing but im offended and hurt that he never invites me and he always takes off with them so I dumped him and now he's being a pest and keeps begging for another chance. What do you think of the entire situation?

Answer 1

Depends what he ditched you for... did he have a legit excuse?  Have you told him you wish he would introduce you to his friends?  Guys are AWFUL at reading into things, so chances are if you didn't tell him, he didn't know it bothered you...

Answer 2

give him another chance, no need to be clingy, maybe he had the plans already, and needs some time with just the guys. he still cares about you, but theres no need to be together all the time, you'll just get sick of eachother

Answer 3

I wouldn't give him another chance.  If he cared he would have made and effort and not childishly ignored you.  He has no incentive at all.

Answer 4

h**l no your not being harsh. this guy seems like a big jurk. dump him. and call him chicken sht!!!! lol