My husband and I have been married now for one year and 3 months. I n the beginning of our marriage I gained a little weight and did not take pride in my appearance. I was laid off from my job in Feb and am now working in the Entertainment industry, not pornography or stuff like that Television Entertainment. Working in an environment like this I had to spice up my style. I lost a decent amount of weight, took a lot more pride in my appearance and now I feel very confident in myself. My husband on the other hand seems to have lost interest. We don't do the grown up as much as we used to when we dated and if we do I initiate, he is not affectionate AT ALL and he does not look at me the same. I know it's not me because I look good but what could it be. I understand he has a stressful job and I give him his space when needed but I am a woman too and I have needs. There are so many men at work wo are very attractive and I am more than sure that they think the same, not to be conceited, I just don't understand what the h**l the issue is with my hubby? I really do love him and would not dream of hurting him so cheating or having an affiar IS SIMPLY NOT AN OPTION! I am the type of person who loves s*x! Like really love s*x and if I didn't choose the lifestyle I have now, I would have made a phenomenal p**n star. What do I do when it gets to the point where I am TIRED of telling my husband the same S**T every other weekend, I try to plan little romantic getaways, when he comes home late I always try to where some cute panties with not top or I try to flip it and wear a bulky robe and hint that there is nothing underneath. We are considering counseling but if there is any advice out there please offer it. Thanks!
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