Am I being too uptight?

Question

Alright so my boyfriend and I were in a fight a few weeks ago and today we saw each other along with one of his friends.

He acted how he did before the fight accept that he talked about this girl named Julia constantly in front of his friend. He was saying how he is seeing her tomorrow and saw her yesterday. I know Julia and she says she wants nothing to do with my boyfriend. She's never liked him and says that she rarely sees him outside of school (we go to different schools).

Whenever he talks about her, I always get kind of mad (I don't say anything though) because he talks about her A LOT, but when we're just alone he is really sweet.

Am I being too immature and uptight in this matter or what?

Why is he doing this? Trying to get me jealous? His friends say he still likes me a lot though, it's not like he doesn't like me anymore.

I recently told one of his friends (he's also my best friend too) that I liked this guy named Mike and I wasn't sure if I really liked Thomas anymore (it was during the fight, so technically we had broken up). Then I went to the movies with Mike and told his friend, because again... he's also my best friend.

Is this, like, payback or something?

Erghh Advice please! What are you opinions?

Answer 1

I find it funny that if the last poster hates kids, "they" are reading about kids issues. Also, if you want to say bad things about an innocent person who is just asking a question, keep them to yourself, your need to post negative feedback is actualy quite immature in itself.

anyways, I dont think you're being uptight. I think that you are being too nice in not saying anything to him while he's talking about her. When he does, tell him how it bothers you and what you feel. If he doesnt understand, then he doesnt deserve you.