My wife of 11 years came home last Tuesday at 4:30am.
She went to the movies with another female and 2 males.
She has a history of meeting guys on the internet (but swears nothing happened).
I do have trust issues with her. In the past 6 years she continues to lie and act strange. That's usually how I catch her. I am sick of her dishonesty.
She is trying to play the "you don't show me affection/help with the kids/do your share of the housework" card as her defense.
Divorce or separation was never brought up until I questioned her whereabouts Monday night.
She left Thursday night as well. She came home at 1am.
I stayed at home and watched the kids. I didn't ask her where she went. I didn't want a lie, and probably couldn't handle the truth.
She says she wants me out.
She says we are finished.
When I ask if she wants a divorce she says she can't commit to one.
When I try to leave she says "Stay til you find a place".
I have to give her gas/food money because she spent her check on ?.
I am doing 95% of the housework as well as working 60 hours a week.
She says she will go to counseling but will not commit to our marriage. She says she needs me to move out asap (when I find a place). It's hard to find a place and pay bills here at home.
Her birthday is Tuesday and I offered to take her out. Not a date, just out. She says no.
She will allow me to take her to a concert next weekend. She says she will go with me if I want, and regardless she will go with or without me.
I think If I don't move out before next weekend she will have me watch the kids while she goes.
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