Am I bisexual? Can anyone give me advice? I'm really confused.?

Question

I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or a L*****n in denial? South of Nowhere is my favorite show and I just love Ashley's and Spencer's relationship's and wish I had that.I think that there both really hot to. I also notice that I check out women more then men. I'm attracted to guys to but I don't know if its a little forced because I don't want anyone to know and cause of the people around me.

I'm also quite self conscious (I'm not fat, size 3, but i want more of a flat stomache like what I see on tv and stuff), and I was wondering, am I looking at women more because I want those features? or am I actually attracted to them.

I want to talk to my parents but I don't want to talk until I no for sure.

I also have kissed a girl when I was going out with my boyfriend and I left more connected with her then him.

Can anyone give me any advice? I'm really confused.

Answer 1

i think you are bi - curious to be honest =]

From reading what you typed that is the message i got .....

though you may be bi but just like girls more than guys .  

Answer 2

I feel the same way too. That's a question I've asking myself also, but I think my answer is I'm both attracted and admiring at the same time. I mean women are beatiful creatures!

Question is when you look at the girl can you picture yourself being with her? Emotionally and sexually? Or do you crave the close strong connection that Spencer and Ashley had, regardless if you picture it with a guy or girl? <<< That's exactly what I'm looking for personally.

I agree with NOT talking to your parents as yet, until you are completely sure and have dated a few girls. The best person to talk to is someone with expereince with this area or just a very close freind whom you trust.

Hope this helped :P

Email me if you need to talk xox  

Answer 3

i'm feeling the same confusion lol. i have been asking myself those same questions for a while now, and i still don't know the answer :(

Answer 4

It sounds like you are bisexual. You are right that you shouldn't talk to your parents yet. Wait until you have dated some girls. And Find a friend you can trust (possibly a bisexual or L*****n) and tell her.