Am I blind? What is he up to? ?

Question

My bf just got out of a recovery house. We have been together 8 years and I have been through h**l with him. We have an email account together and I saw an email from a girl that said ou812 then her name and then mmmmm then in the email it said mmmmm good eatin! When I asked him about it he said he made the account up to get some girl that had bothering him off his back. I don't believe this. Am I blind to the fact that he is s******g around on me? And, he probably is going to drink again. He is now living on the streets due to the recovery house graduating him early due to the problems with this one girl. Tell me like it is.

Answer 1

sounds like you already know the answer. Good luck.

Answer 2

i know i don't want to be in your shoes.... my ex cheated on me and and once a cheater always a cheater.... anyways i don't know if it works the same for Drinkers...... wish you all the best and try to talk it out with him.

Answer 3

You can probably do better for yourself. I'm not so sure about the cheating; that should be left up to you to decide since you know him best.  

Answer 4

Gril, you got to let this guy go. Show him the door.

You have put up with his problems for 8 years, don't let him drag you down with him.

You need a clean break, you are worth more than this.

Best of luck!

Answer 5

Thats horrible, tell him its over!

Answer 6

Good Bye to him.

Answer 7

he may be a bad guy, but he also could be telling the truth

i do not think you should ask other people what to do in this situation

think about it yourself, without other's influence and figure it out

don't listen to these responses

Answer 8

leave the guy

Answer 9

makes me wonder if there is a dearth for men in this planet??? take stock of your life plz.

Answer 10

Hunny, I think you need to move on! He is not good for your life at all, get away and get your life on track be happy without his problems..

Answer 11

your not blind because you can clearly see that there is something fishy going on. its kind of strange that he would ask a girl to send an e-mail to your shared account because that is like asking to be caught.that's all i got.

Answer 12

8 YEARS?! WOMEN YOU CRAZY?! i woulda kicked his hobo **** out.

All in all leave his dumb bumb, a good woman like you deserves a good man.