Am I crazy? (20 characters blah blah blah)?

Question

Umm...well...I have a slight obsession with Kurt Cobain. Not slight, actually. A HUGE obsession actually.

I think about him like a gazillion times a day, and sometimes I find myself wishing that I were dead too and all. I think I have a special connection with him. Wow I sound absolutely nuts don't I?

This should probably be in the psychology section but whatever.

So what do you think? Is this obsession anything to worry about? Any other obsessive fans out there?

Answer 1

When I was in high school in the 90's, I was obsessed with Nirvana & Kurt Cobain. There was a point that Nirvana was all I wanted to listen to. I was all depressed when he died. I think that you should ease up a bit & open up to new things to balance out all the focus you have on Kurt. I don't know how much other music you listen to, but if you're the way I was, you should explore all types of music. When I finally opened up to other stuff I couldn't believe what I had been missing. I got into the local punk scene at the time & took it from there. Now I like so many different genres, always trying to find something new & interesting.. Hope this helps. :)

Answer 2

Like I always say: "Better Kurt Cobain than Joe Jonas!" Actually, I've never said that, but still, it is true. =)

Answer 3

No, you're not crazy. Many people (especially teens) go through obsessions with celebrities, it's usually just a phase. It's just normal, it's only a fantasy.

Kurt is in fact a celebrity who a lot of people are very passionate about. A lot of people can relate to him, love his lyrics, and yes, a lot of girls think he was gorgeous! I'm a bit Kurt obsessed at the moment... I think i'll always like him, but i think obsessing is just a phase that'll pass in time. You'll probably be the same. When you meet a guy in real life who you're crazy about, it fades. But you can still like him!

So, don't worry, you're not crazy, just let this run its course. And remember, Kurt has a lot of fans who feel the same way. He was very talented, attractive and a great person. People love him, and wish he wasn't dead <3 RIP. But if you ever feel suicidal yourself because Kurt's dead, see a doctor. But otherwise, you're just a normal adoring fan! I'm a Kurt fanatic at the moment too, you're not alone. He was sooo hot, lmao.

=]  

Answer 4

I think you're alright. So you happen to like his work, so what? Kurt was a good musician, at least you're not thinking about a talentless band all this time. (Just saying, it could be worse)

Answer 5

Hmm,maybe you should check out any Nirvana/Kurt Cobain forums anywhere on the internet.I bet you will find lots of people who are like you in that respect.If not anything else you will feel a little more,uh,normal.

Answer 6

it's normal. just a phase. so long as you don't fall into his steps.

Answer 7

if u have an obsession with kurt then yeah u are crazy. haha no offence tho. but seriously

Answer 8

You just sound like a diehard Nirvana fan that wishes the band could still carry on.  There is nothing wrong with that in my opinion.

Answer 9

If you are, then I am too!  I find myself looking at pictures of him and listening to something in the way staring into his eyes.  I get really immersed in his journals and sometimes I think that we are alot alike because my journals kinda have similar stuff in them.  I've never wished I was dead...not because he was anyway.  I just listen to his songs and look at pictures of him and think "why is he dead? why Kurt, why?"  

Answer 10

Everyone thinks this about some sort of celebrity at least once in there life and if they deny it there lying!

You'll get over it eventually lol trust me ,you sound quite young,

Just think though even if you where dead doesn't mean that he's gonna meet you in the afterlife

You sound a bit too obsessed though i must admit lol

Answer 11

You'll get over it one of these days

I feel the same way about Axl Rose

Answer 12

Kurt died, get over it. You don't have to forget about him, to get over the fact he died.

That's my only advice.

Answer 13

Yes you are obsessed, to the point where it doesn't sound healthy. By the way (no offence)  but there are thousands of people out there who think they have a special connection with Cobain, just because they relate to him and his music. They don't, and you don't, you just worship the guy, but you should really listen to Alice In Chains, and Layne Staley, because Layne is 3x the singer and songwriter, with all due respect to Kurt, I like the guy.  

Answer 14

a bit.

try not to want urself to be dead and remember that if he was still alive, he'd just be a downer. i mean he was a pretty disturbed person. plus, courtney is a complete B*TCH. if she saw u hanging out with Kurt, she'd make your life h**l. she was greedy for his money and she wouldn't like it if some1 gets too close to him else they might get some of it.